2006-07-16 16:55:08 · 33 answers · asked by Confused girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Religion is a part of you, something you should never give up for anyone. Your guy needs to love the whole package or you need to move on. There are things about us we all need to change but honey your faith isnt one of them. Dont do it!!!!!!
2006-07-16 16:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy really loves you then he should be willing to accept you as you are .......and not ask you to change your religion......just let him go.......break up but do it in such a manner that he understands that you love him the most in your life but cannot change your religion.....he'll blackmail you ......you know how guys are he'll say "you can't do such a small thing for me if you love me" but you have to be very determined.....imagine he's doing these things now what will happen after marraige....he may ask you to change your way of living ,your sense of dressing,etc......he's just looking to dominate you.......so back out of this relationship if you want to be happy and contented throughout your life.........am sure you'll get someone more liberal who loves you regardless of your religious beliefs and doesn't threaten and dominate you.
Remember love is not forcing each other to live together
Good luck .......i know it will be difficult leaving someone you love but you have to do it for a better soulmate.
2006-07-16 17:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God warns us (in the Bible) not to be unevenly yoked with another. This means a couple should worship the same God and have the same religion. Marriage is difficult enough without having different religions. You should both study each other's religions and one of you should switch or you should end this relationship. This should be a change of heart, with solid reasons, not because of a threat. That will never work!
2006-07-16 17:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA DEFINANTLY what r u doing staying with a guy that cant except u for who u r
do u really want to stay with a guy who threatens u on breaking up with u?
be the person who breaks up first
i mean im not relgious but if it means a lot to u and even if it doesnt but u dont want to change it dont let him pressure u and definantly not threaten u!!!
break up with him now!!!ur better then that
2006-07-16 17:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, if he can't accept you for you, then he is not worth your time. Tell him if he wants to break up with there's the door, don't let it hit you on the *** on the way out. Religion is everyones personal preference. No one can make you change your beliefs.
2006-07-16 17:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Anytime someone threatens to break up with you if you don't change who you are in something that is so serious you need to get rid of them anyway.
Beat him to the punch. Tell him instead of him breaking up with you, you have just broken up with him.
2006-07-16 16:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby let him GOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! If someone can't except you for what you are then let him go!!!!!! Remember the old saying about love? You know if you love someone so much but there not happy and they want to leave, let them go and if it was meant to be then they will come back. Let him go. Once you do you will probably not be as upset as you think your going to be. You may even feel like a better person for standing up for what you believe and for who you are. You be sure to let him know that throughout your life you will never beg no one to stay with you if thats not what they want nor are you going to change for someone else even though your happy being that way! LET HIM GOOOOOOOOO!!!! remember if he really loves you and it is meant to be then he will come back and if not then it just wasn't meant to be and trust me you will be just fine!!!!
2006-07-16 17:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by paula y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how strongly you feel tied to your current religion. It is common for one person in a relationship to adopt the religion of the other. But if you have strong ties to your religion and it bothers you to give it up, this might be a "deal breaker" in your relationship, unless there's a compromise somewhere.
One things for sure, he certainly feels strong about HIS religion.
2006-07-16 16:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move along with your life. Your religion should be your own free choice. If he will dump you just because you won't change your religion, he doesn't truly love you. In other words, just dump him because he's an a$$hole
2006-07-16 17:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by snausages 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but that is sad. If he is gonna break up with you just because of your religion then I hate to tell you this but if it didn't something else and maybe even stupider would.
2006-07-16 17:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Nic M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋