hey i was wondering y am i still in love with my ex boyfriend we were together for 2/half yrs..and 2morrow would be a year since our breeak up!!! i really miss him.we still talk all the time.but he has a girlfriend..im so lost can someone give me advice......please.i love him sssooooooooo much but it hurts me 2 know he is w/someone else!!!
2006-07-16 16:47:59 · 6 answers · asked by ashley_mcfarland06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do is walk away. I know you are still in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend and to her you probably seem like a threat. You need to consider that he is in a new relationship now and is probably hoping you will find someone for yourself. as i said before walk away and that means disconnect yourself from him competely like dont answer his calls or call him and if you see him on the street walk past, its the easiest way to get over him. and if he is ready to start fresh again with you he will contact you and come and find you. im sorry if this sound harsh but its reality and its fair on both you, your boyfriend and his current girlfriend. have respect for all of you and move on.
2006-07-16 16:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, knows what it feels like. What I did was I stopped talking to him and that helped me move on. I think it's b/c you guys are still on talking terms it makes it harder to move on. He has moved on, since he has a gf...I'm sorry it's harsh, however, that's reality. You need keep yourself busy as much as possible with tons of fun stuff so you can get over him..hey maybe you might find someone else in the process... P.S. aftr 2 yrs after the break up I was able to talk to him and know I didn't have any feelings for him anymore.
2006-07-16 23:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural, but you did break up for a reason, so remind yourself of the why's and the negatives because thinking of all the wonderful things only prolongs you moving on.
GET OUT THERE and find some other sort of entertainment... DIFFERENT BOYS!!!
The more fun you have, the less you'll think of him.
2006-07-16 23:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by _aihlie_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over you ex boyfriend.... my ex fiance and i have been over for a year and i thought i missed him i cried for about 5 months after the breakup we talked and then i realized that talking to him was making it worse....stop talking i know its hard been there done that but after 2 weeks you wont even miss him...well ok yeah you will its been since january since i last talked to the sorry *** loser of an ex and i havent been any happier good luck and may god bless you with the strength to move on...
2006-07-16 23:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by glowofacandle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY COMMON TO HAVE THOSE FEELING AFTER A
LONG PERIOD OF TIME, BUT YOU NEED TO MOVE ON,
HE HAS. AND IT ABOUT TIME FOR YOU TO START, NEED
TO FIND SOMEONE ONE THAT WILL GIVE YOU EVERYTHING
THAT YOU NEED AND WANT. SEATING AROUND THAT NOT
GOOD. START LIVING, HAVE FUN.
2006-07-16 23:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't keep talking to him. especially since he has a gf, i know it's hard, but it does get easier once you stop talking.
2006-07-16 23:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by JOHN R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋