ok i always get complimants or here that guys think im hot and really like me and stuff but for some reason i just cant beleive it im really self-concious and i seem to have no self esteem...but i cant help it its not that i never get compliment i told u i do but i cant help but feel this way even when other ppl say im pretty i still dont think so?is it normal i mean is it ok to feel this way?
2006-07-16 16:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by hotloverxo328 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not okay to feel that way! You probably are beautiful just a little confused. I can't tell you what to do to help except just listen to the compliments you receive. My girlfriend has the same problem and no matter how many times I tell her she is beautiful she doesn't like to see herself for the wonderful and beautiful person she really is.
2006-07-16 16:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely!! I feel the same way, I'm always getting complimented and get the double-glances from guys and i honestly don't know why!! i think i'm ....not very pretty but i am constantly told otherwise, but i still can't believe it. We both need to learn not 2 be so hard on ourselves It is normal to feel this way, but normal isn't always necessarily good. Lighten up, learn to trust others. Learn to accept the fact that ur one hot chika :-P but the really good guys (the kind every girl dreams of) like the gorgeous girls that aren't slutty and conceited, so don't be ashamed if you're a little shy
2006-07-16 16:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♥HF♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your past. When you were younger, you either were not considered pretty or just noone looked at you like that. I used to have a weight problem from when I was 8 years old till I was about 12.At 11 I started swimming and lost all of my weight but I had very athletic body and didn't consider myself pretty. When I was 16 guys started saying about me that I'm pretty. I didn't believe anyone.I was flattered but didn't believe them.Now I realize that indeed I was pretty back then but for some reason I have more confidence now.I believe it is about the self-confidence. You have to start thinking about yourself. If you don't, noone else will.Dress nicely and sexy and you will see what they were talking about.
2006-07-16 16:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you lack of confidence isn't really about your outward appearence. Try to find personality traits and interests that set you apart from other people. Work on strengthening those, and your self-esteem will increase. Then you will be able to see yourself outwardly for who you really are.
A good way to get in touch with yourself is to volunteer with a group that helps people. Look into Habitat for Humanities or a local Boys and Girls Club.
2006-07-16 16:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Annette R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men probably find you more appealing because you arent conceited about your looks although your very pretty.. at least thats how you described yourself.
My mom is like you, she is very pretty but to her, she's an average lady. To me she looks better than all her daughters including yours truly but she doesnt see it that way.
Im not sure if its normal or not, but who can say what "normal" is. If thats how you feel then thats how you feel.. There are more important things in life than looks.. like how do you stand out at an interview when there are 300 applicants applying for the same damn job... ha..
2006-07-16 16:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite.
I know how you feel.
And it's completely understandable.
Just don't use it as a way to fish for compliments.
Everyone views themselves differently than other percieve them.
It's quite normal to lack self esteem.
But try to get used to the idea that maybe you are attractive.
Try to find things about yourself that you like.
Hope I've helped.
-Loki
2006-07-16 16:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 08:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey yeah it is normal to feel this way but to have no self esteem let me ask you this.... how much do you love yourself? if you love urself alot then stop this stuff, but if you don't love urself then i can't help you. sorry. but i can tell you that you will grow out f it.
2006-07-16 17:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for girl to think this. usually some of the most beautiful girls usually think they are ugly and look down on themselves but the ugly girls think they are the shi+. Your best bet is to try and ignore the feeling and keep telling yourself your beautiful and everyone else knows it.
2006-07-16 16:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya , but you should work on your self esteem. You know not everyone is lying to you.
2006-07-16 16:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋