There are two guys who have a crush on my Will and Skylar.. Sklyar is my age and Will is a year younger than me. Will's sister is my best friend and Skylar is one of my good friends. I kind of like them both and I dont know what to do they both asked me to go out with them...
2006-07-16 16:36:25 · 26 answers · asked by monkee9305 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with one one day and the other the next then decide who will be the one to date steadly
2006-07-16 16:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your best friend how she feels about you dating her brother first. If she doesn't like the idea, there's your answer right there. But it comes down to which do you like more? Since they've both asked you out, one of them is going to get hurt. That's not your fault, it's just unavoidable. (Unless you go out with both of them, but that will only hurt them both eventually, and then it will be your fault!) But no one can tell you which one you should choose. Go with the one you like the most, and don't make a sudden decision. Take your time, don't rush it. If either of them rushes you or pressures you, go with the other one. This is your decision alone.
2006-07-16 23:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them each the same 3 questions about yourself. The one that pays more attention to you will know the answers. If they both get 3 out of 3 go out with the one whos a better kisser.
2006-07-16 23:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by blasted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not in an exclusive relationship, it's okay to date as many people as you want. That's what dating is for. Once you decide which person you like better, then you can talk about dating exclusively. For now, just go out on dates with both of them (just not at the same time of course).
2006-07-16 23:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about picking qualities and picking appearances and styles etc its about which one you are more attracted to. don't date one and then the other to determine who is better cause there is no such thing. of course different things will be better in one guy then the other but that's normal. i suggest you take some time out from the both of them for a couple of days just to get your head around reality. confide in your friends make sure there isn't going to be any contributing factors from them. as you said Will's sister is your best friend. be steady with yourself too don't move into a relationship with one of them because you feel you have to and don't make a choice because you feel you have to. at the end of the day your heart might not fall quite like you thought for either of them. so give yourself some time out from them so it can give your head time to think. it will be worth it. you also need to confide in the both of them of you "true" feelings not just the ones they want to hear too.
2006-07-16 23:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the name Will, so I'm saying go with Skylar
2006-07-16 23:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to date your best friends brother because it will ruin your friendship and you dont want to date your best friend because of the same reason, but if you really like this guy skyler then I say go for it. Who knows it could work out. Just whet ever you do, dont date the best friends brother. It would be a mistake.
2006-07-16 23:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That IS hard. If it were me in that situation, I'd go with the guy that's my age because if you date someone younger than you, you'll probably be more mature than him. In other words, you'd probably find him really immature after a few days. So in oher words, I'd say go with Skyler. Besides, you're already friends with him, so dating him would just be the next step!
2006-07-16 23:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience...I dated my best friend's brother. We grew up together, lived next door to each other all our young life. I have been friends, almost family with my best friend and her brother for over thirty years. Now that her brother and I no longer date and he has married, I no longer feel comfortable going to their family get together, weddings, baby showers, etc. It has put a strain on my relationship with my best friend and it drastically changed a friendship/relationship of over thirty years with him..We will never be the same, I will never feel the same toward him ever. Its just not worth it...
2006-07-17 00:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by extraneouscropduster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weigh this. Your best friends brother? How would she feel about it? If you treasure her opinions and friendship, see how would she react.
Of the two, which one you like more. Answer that and choose.
Since non is your boyfriend, and assuming you don't have one. Then you can have a date with each with no problems.
2006-07-16 23:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date the two of them. That way when you make your decision it will be based on how well you two got along, the chemistry the two of you shared etc. Do not base your desision on who you're friends with. You're not going to date Will's sister so it shouldn't matter how well you and she get along.
2006-07-16 23:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋