what do u do if ur boyfriends mom wont even let u talk 2 her son bcause ov a certain kind of person u dont like
2006-07-16 16:25:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i luv god & its cause i dont like certain kinds people and im 13
2006-07-16 16:30:12 · update #1
id rather not say what kind of people i dont like
2006-07-16 16:36:01 · update #2
Um...why is she being so nosey....tell her you have personal reasons for not liking that person and you would like and appreciate and not be judged based on your decision to choose to not like them. Also explain that you mean no disrespect to her by your decision and that its personal but you would appreciate it if she would allow you to see her son. If that dont work- give up and move on- he shouldnt be such a mommys boy.
2006-07-16 16:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to clarify this a little. It really doesn't make sense.
OK. This is almost the reverse of what is happening with my son except we have little idea why her mom won't let her date my son. They are both 14 so I imagine it has something to do with your age. In my son's case, her mom won't let her see my son because he used to date her daughter's best friend. Her best friend doesn't care, so I don't know why the mother cares but she won't budge. She barely lets them talk.
I am going to guess that maybe her mother thinks you are passing judgement on someone for the wrong reason. She may have some misinformation or a misunderstanding. If she won't let her son or you talk to her about it, I'm afraid you are going to have to accept her decision. Maybe if you give it some time she will change her mind. At any rate, I wouldn't listen to anyone who is telling you to do anything you might regret later.
2006-07-16 16:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by wolfmusic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you two are. If you both are in college or whatever, then she really has no control over this kinda thing. In high school, or even middle school... tough luck. Unless you can forgive/forget whatever it is that that certain person did, there's really nothing you can do.
(Going behind her back, by the way, really isn't going to work.)
2006-07-16 16:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please explain what a Certain kind of person u don't like.....means? I am confused about that. If her son is minor and she doesn't want him talking to her, then she has the right to make that call.....if you two are grown adults then guess what she doesn't get a say. Good luck.
2006-07-16 16:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her son.
She may have some justifiable reason unbeknown to you now.
Before you criticize her, why not try and put your self in her shoes.
What is it that she sees, that you are missing?
Maybe you won't like that person either once you try to do this and you see what it is she doesn't like about them.
Take your time.
It takes lots of practice to keep and open mind and see a situation threw someone else eyes.
2006-07-16 16:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know but try telling her you mean no harm and if that does not work i would try maybe fibbing and saying you like the person that you actually dont so maybe she will let you talk to him good luck with the boyfriend withdraw i always like to have ben and jerry's in this situation! lol
2006-07-16 16:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ratt_a_tatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the picture of things to come, you will save yourself a lot of grief if you wait for someone who do no let their mother make decision for them.
Their are good role for mothers,but sometimes trust change people.
I have been in the same boat as you, and I have saved myself a lot of grief. Once he is mommas boy, you and her only change position but mommas boy still don't grow up.
Good luck with that.
2006-07-16 16:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're hanging here...I can only guess this is a racial issue.
What you do is move on, you are way toooo young to get hung up in issues like this. BF mom probably won't give in, so there is nothing else you really can do.
Time will take care of it.
2006-07-16 16:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how old u and your boyfriend is? what kind of a person don't u like? please add more info... ty for the info....just because there r people u don't like i think she is being unfair...try talking to her.if she is still being unfair then u could pretend u like certain kind of person, this way u can talk to him...but just remember shes the adult..........and you r only 13 so what she says goes until u r 18..then she cant stop u from seeing him..GL
2006-07-16 16:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents protect their kids and only want the best for them. You will never change her mind so either talk to him behind her back or let go and move on to a new boyfriend.
2006-07-16 16:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋