is this wrong?

Question

I dated a girl for 6 months and took her virginity because of a bet my buddies had made with me, I lied to her, told her I loved her, bought her cheap flowers, and even cooked a meal for her sometimes...anyways I got 150$ total for taking this girls virginity and now I haven't called her ever since that night and don't plan on it, I even think I might call her and tell her i hate her.... anyways is this wrong? she is 19 yrs old and a devout christian...ps I even went to church a few times and acted like I believed in god.....lol

I even screwed around on her behind her back.

Answer 1

sounds made up for neg. response so I wont make a comment because you know if you really did this you know it was wrong - no one would degrade themselves like this for any other reason.

Answer 2

You know better. You absolutely know that you did something wrong. You know that you should treat others as you want others to treat you. If you are not sure about what is right or wrong (which I doubt it), then take the other person’s position and analyze how you would feel if somebody were playing with your feelings. You just want your buddies to read what you did and continue celebrating. Did you feel a boost in your self esteem? To me it just looks like
you want to enjoy some insults and keep laughing.

Answer 3

Hmmm...well, what would you do if some girl did this to you? You'd be pissed, right? Duh, it's wrong to fool around with a poor girl's heart, pop her cherry, lead her on, then drop her like a bad habit. Just call her and say 'Sorry, I made a bet with a few buddies that I could get you to sleep with me. I never cared. Now go live your life' Harsh, but at least the truth is better than saying 'I hate you"

Answer 4

Damn, foo! Yeah, it is ultimately wrong. This is some f-up $hi7. You should feel ashamed. But somehow, I know you ain't. I twill bite you back in the @$$, dude. At least have the courage to tell her the truth. It's the only best thing you can do. Good luck.

Answer 5

You are one sick man. Keep this in mind.....Someday if you ever have a daughter, think how and what you would want to do to a boy that did that do her. You need help! Don't even pick up that phone and call her, she deserves so much better then you. Stay away and Pray to God she didn't get pregnant.......,.

Answer 6

You are a total jackass she didn't deserve what you did you should be reported if there is a place to report jerks like you I think you should tell her the truth and give her the money you made.

Answer 7

I don't know why you're bragging about this.
Just remember one thing though, what goes around, comes around.
In other words, what you dish out, you'll get back done to you.
You're a poor excuse for a dude.

Answer 8

Well I guess being a F@ggot is a lot of fun. Watch how your life turn out.

Answer 9

Yeah that is f***ing wrong think about how you would feel if some one did that to your sister or even your mother you would be mad huh dumb ***

Answer 10

YES I THINK THAT IS VERY WRONG I THINK YOU SHOULD CALL HER AND TELL HER OR YOU MIGHT BUT ON YOUR WAY TO H**L! I DON'T THINK THAT'S FUNNY THAT YOU WENT TO CHURCH AND PRETENDED THAT YOU BELIEVE IN THE GOD!