to put a loved one in a state home..Because they were not a nurse and could not afford to care for him at home....plus it was upsetting their family...ok..then they get criticized for it???? I mean what if they were in my shoes??? what can i say back if i am confronted about it???
2006-07-16 16:10:11 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Then tell those who criticize you to go get the individual from the state home and try caring for the person themselves. It's easy to be an armchair critic, but not so easy when you're the one out of the chair and doing the work.
2006-07-16 16:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do what is allowed money wise, if you can take care of them and you send them off becauseits upsetting then are wrong. Imagine how the sick person feels and how upset they are that theyre family just pushes them onto somone else because they are sick. If you ant afford it then it is a different story. But i am not in your situation so do what you want and if someone comfronts you then tell them if it was their buisness then you would ask for their opinion.
2006-07-16 16:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes 1st, and if you doing whats right for your family then thiers nothing wrong.
2006-07-16 16:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by matt83840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry about your problem dude..
but they are not in your shoes.... so they won't understand.
i feel you dude but i'm not in your shoe....
so sorry i can't give you the answer... maybe someone else can.
hope u solve your matter...
good luck.
2006-07-16 16:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nickel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them where they were when your loved one needed their help?
2006-07-16 16:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋