Im pretty good friends with one girl that i like. She just dosen't seem like the girl that would like me. She is smart and very pretty but dosen't seem to be interested in me. I have known her for almost seven years now, and want to make a move. And I don't know if she has a b/f but i think she would think I was weird for asking. I have liked her for a while but don't know what to do, someone help me plz!
2006-07-16 16:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by korson90210 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've known this girl for 7 years and been friends all that time, it's prolly not a good idea to ask her out. I'm sure that if she had the same feelings for you, the relationship would have went farther by now. She prolly just wants to be your friend, don't jeopardize the friendship.
2006-07-16 16:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo've known her for 7 years and you never made a move?
foget about it
she has a guy
you need to find someone you do not know
ask a total stranger
get rejected
evetually your confidence will grow
and you ask with confidence and guess what
you'll get replies
you get hooked up
from there if you have the ball but fumble it, then you have to work on your game as you obviously got none
you may think your good looking, you may thnk your funny
but that a hard call for self observation
if you were that good looking and that funny
trust me you have a GF(s) by now
if you are stuck as female freinds
it's because you are viewed as safe
you have no danger
you not perceived as am an either
a non provider not one to stand up for them if they need it
women want to feel security
and you do not provide it
you might as well be gay
2006-07-16 23:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later, almost every chick will be paired off with a guy--for good--including this one. If it's not you, it will be some other dude. What's so strange about being attracted to someone who's already your friend?
Your friendship will probably fade anyway if/when she gets serious with another guy, so I don't see what you'd lose by seeing if she's interested in dating you.
If a friendship is too fragile to withstand a try at romance (and maybe a rejection), you're wasting your time anyway.
2006-07-16 23:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think from a women point of view is take her to eat some where. Just talk for a while then just let her know that you have know each other for a while and you wanted to let her know that you really care. If she wont go out with you then jsut ask is it cause you have a b/f and if not then you will know that she dont feel that way.
2006-07-16 23:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've been good friends w/ her for seven yrs now & don't know if she has a b/f , you must not be as good of friends as you think you are. i would just ask her if she wants to go out sometime, then go from there. she might feel the same way about you, but is scared also. ask her, what can it hurt?? good luck.
2006-07-16 23:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by skinytwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to get up the gumption to say that you would like to go on a date with her. Be a little less nice and be a bit more aggressive, that will be the only way you actually find someone for yourself, even if it fails, you will have some experience.
2006-07-16 23:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by lilstudcub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her just what u told us...she just might be feeling the same way...but also be careful because if u 2 do start dating and if u 2 break up u will never have that friendship u have now....Gl
2006-07-16 23:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could try asking some of her girlfriends if she has a boyfriend, and if she doesn't, then you could try asking her to go to the movies or something and try something there...if it seems like the right time. (scary movie)
2006-07-16 23:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find somthing that she likes to do and be a little romantic but not to much good luck
2006-07-16 23:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋