I'm shy, and all the guys I know are players. They all come around when they want a little action. I just want a some what of a meaningful relationship.
2006-07-16 16:04:40 · 16 answers · asked by kira j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXXX I sure hope you are not giving them a little action. You don't want that kind of reputation. You're still young, lots of time to have a meaningful relationship. Just don't make the wrong mistakes now that you will regret later. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-16 16:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging around the jagoffs and look for the "shy" guys.
I, being a "shy" guy, know that most all girls go for the jagoff player types just cause they're "hot". Well, they'll find out later in life what it's like to be alone. It sucks. Then us romantic gentlemen who want relationships will eventually find what we're looking for.
2006-07-16 23:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bubba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't give up any action the players will go away. Then opportunity for meaningful relationships will increase.
2006-07-16 23:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, find a guy who's not always touchin' people...that's a BAD sign if they do that. Also anyone willing to be there for action but no relationship aren't what you need. Chat with me if you got more questions. weirdmonkeyspanker@yahoo.com
2006-07-16 23:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay shy, don't play around though. players are only interested to girls who loves to play also. so if you don't do what they do, you'll probably not get someone like them. just wait, the guy you wanted will soon come, just be patient and don't rush things up unless you're in your 40's. lol ^^
2006-07-16 23:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mhazeâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont give into them. There is someone out there that is a real man. Relationships are hard if you are just looking for looks or the sex. Look for someone different there out there just hard to find cause they dont think that women want them.
2006-07-16 23:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find out where the kinda guys you are interested hang. ie, like if I wanted someone who was an avid reader, I would hang at a bookstore, like Barnes and Nobles. Just find out where the guys are that you are looking for and strategically make yourself available. ;) Ciao!
2006-07-16 23:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone who shares your taste in music, who likes similar movies, and who is about as smart as you are. Talk to him a lot, and be patient. There are a lot of good guys out there.
Watch your conversation for things like, "Really? Me, too!" That's a good sign. Learn to identify phonies. It sounds like you have experience with those guys.
Don't follow other females' dating advice if they don't have relationships like you want for yourself.
2006-07-16 23:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u thought about moving? no serious remember you r judged by the crowd u run with so if u want people to think yer CHEAP AND SLEAZY run with that crowd but remember the hardest thing to live down is a bad reputation
2006-07-16 23:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get pregnant. if he leaves you because you were pregnant than you had some what of a meaningful relationship
2006-07-16 23:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋