all what this guy does is keep looking at my body greedily whenever he talks to me. i am sick of it , but since he is a very friendly person i cant be rude to him either. what should i be doing to discourage his rotton behaviour?
2006-07-16 15:53:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first of all, turn off the "flirting"....I know you may not be really flirting, but being friendly is considered "flirting" by some men. Second, tell him you're not comfy with the way he looks at you....if he doesn't stop, you become the ice queen to him........and if that still doesn't work, you avoid him and you file harassment charges.
2006-07-16 15:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friendly doesn't give him the right to explore your body while he's talking to you. Next time it happens just tell him: Look me in the eye to talk to me. I feel very uncomfortable with your eyes wandering all over my body. Didn't your mother teach you that is not the way to treat a lady? (raise you voice so others can hear you cause he probably does it to every young lovely girl)....embarass the hell out of him
Don't be afraid to be rude. it's about time someone told this clod to mind his manners.
2006-07-16 22:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him coming turn the other way or do something to appear busy and hope he goes away. He is not friendly if he looks at you "greedily".
2006-07-16 22:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little leary on the friendly part, perhaps he is trying to be friendly because he thinks that he can get your guard down.
I would go up to him, tell him exactly how you feel and then leave.
If he had some intentions, that should take care of it,
2006-07-16 23:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by lynnette m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know what he's doing to you is not welcomed if he's so friendly. Be honest, let him know that he doesn't need to look at you like a piece of meet, your a person and respect you. If he's really friendly he'll understand. If he looks at you like a piece of meat, he's really not that friendly is he? You make the choice.
2006-07-16 22:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendly does not means he is horny & wierd.U should warn him for his rudeness if he still respect you as a friend.Be careful with such person,go out with another gf if possible & keep out any secluded places...talk in the open/lighted places with many peoples.
2006-07-16 22:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear just tell him straight that you don't like way he looks at you.. guys have slow brains so they need to be told most of the time in what they're doing wrong!!!
2006-07-16 23:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your boyfriend will willingly kick major a$$ if anyone looks at you in a 'more-than-friendly' way.
2006-07-16 22:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its making u uncomfortable, then who cares how friendly he is. just tell him to get bent and if he continues report him to the authorities.
2006-07-16 22:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by jbanks332002x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel the way you do it is posiby you are misreading him if he is as nice as you say he will understand
2006-07-16 22:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋