there's this guy at work that i really like, but he's been experiencing a lot of difficulties in his life right now. then last week, my girl bestfriend was talking with him and he told my friend that besides all his problems... he needs to get over a girl... and for the past months he has been flirting with me all along.... now im confused.... so is it possible that while he was flirting with me he has feelings for another girl? or would that girl that he need to get over with could possibly be me??? i don't know it's just an intuition... but he never really told me straight that he likes me just through flirty actions....what do you guys think?
it's so difficult to stay away from him now... i work with him, i see him everyday... i really care about him a lot.... and i think i really have deep feelings for him.... too late to turn around...
2006-07-16 15:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hm. Ask him when you're alone. Confess that you have a tiny crush on him.
2006-07-16 15:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never too late to turn around, honey. This guy is a flirt and he doesn't mean anything by it. He's got something on the side too or he'd be all over you. Besides, do you want to get mixed up with someone you work with??? That's bad business and a good way to lose you job. He's not up front with you. And you both will be on the street if you step it up or try to manipulatie the situation. Step Back!
2006-07-16 22:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you only think you have deep feelings for someone you see at work, because you don't really know him. It is certainly not to late to turn around. He may see his relationship with you as a way to distract himself from his old girlfriend, which is fair. So far it's just playful, and you can't read anything into that one way or another. I would think what you have is a good thing that could be better.
2006-07-16 22:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Singlemomof10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is kinda hard. I highly doubt he needs to get over you if he is flirting with you.I think he might've broken up with a girl but he still can't believe it's over, that he needs to talk to someone about it. Maybe you can talk to him about what those difficulties are and try to comfort him throughout the whole thing. He will get the hint you care about him and he might start to like you even more! Maybe invite him to lunch on your lunch break or ask him to dinner.
2006-07-16 22:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kat L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand this correctly ( you say he has a girl to get over, and has been flirting with you or your twin?), his feelings for the other girl, are negative and his feelings for you are positive. He needs your help, (you can help in many ways, including some you might not want to jump in to doing, at this time)to get over her. But if he's trying to get over her, and interest you, what of your best friend? If he has feelings for her, too, you've got a pickle. But I'll bet you a pizza dinner, it's really you, that he wants, in every way!
2006-07-16 22:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late to turn around. He sounds like a flirt trying to make as many conquests as possible. Nothing has happened between you so you can continue to converse. As you get to know him better you will get over these feelings you have.
2006-07-16 22:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm know with someone at work an if i could do it over again i wouldnt do it, because sometimes it gets uncormftable. is not good being in love and be the sidekick, if he is in love with someone else you r going to help him, but your feelings, where they stay, if u can talk straight to him and ask him what are his feelingss for you if he has any...
2006-07-16 22:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by XSA16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be the rebound chick, and that is the WORST position to be in because he could back to her given half a chance. Move on.
I know it's easier said than done, but trust me, you don't want to be the rebound chick.
2006-07-16 22:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? He was prob just saying that too your friend in case she was trying to crack on to him... He prob just wasn't into her & covering his @ss. If he is flirting with you, just keep going? If you have the guts to, sit him down for a talk or something?
2006-07-16 22:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him gurl well you should push up your boobs, wear a tight shirt and some really cute clothes...How can he say no and resist you?LOL Just be yourself and if he don't care then there are more things in life
2006-07-16 22:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by jlmbratz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to join you for lunch. Or ask him to meet you for dinner. The worst that can happen is a "no", but either way then you'll know what's going on.
2006-07-16 22:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by adgmonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋