why Double Standred?

Question

When a guy sleep with mnay girl he is stud, to more girl he do the more famious/better he is..On the other hand a girl is called s-l-u-t if she sleep around...

Answer 1

wtf?

Answer 2

Because women have traditionally been placed in a subservient role. This gender bias is also telling the idea of the phallus (the male organ). Most people view sex as a man dominating a woman. While this seems to be the case even beyond the realm of S&M, I think that these stereotypes are created by the society we live in. As a male I do find it repulsive when a girl sleeps with many guys. But why? Because I was conditioned early on that women could not liberate their own sexuality. Only men could liberate women. That's what all the fairy tales say... "She rode off into the sunset with her noble knight." Women are also afraid of masturbation, mostly because of cultural influences, whereas men don't have any pressure. Why? Male dominance in the gender relationships gives men the upperhand. Women will always have to find men to open their sexuality. Men just need "a hand". Which brings me to my conclusion. Women need to realize that men should not be their guides to sexuality (This statement is not meant to same women aren't independent of men, or that they have missed this, it's meant to help those who haven't heard the news) and that they are free to accept their sexual nature. I would like to stress finally that people should use sexuality as a gift and not as a hedonistic task.

Answer 3

yeah, it seems like when a guy sleeps around with more than one girl he's a hero or player, but if a girl does it she's considered to be cheap, easy, or a slut. I think it's wrong that men can get away with it and gain "fame" if you will but if a woman does it she loses all her dignity and respect. However you look at it, it's wrong on both parts, a guy or a girl shouldn't do it because you're not gaining anything from it except a bad reputation. You shouldn't sleep around just because you can or feel the urge to, it should be because you share a special connection with the other person...if you're just doing it to do it then it ruins the meaning behind it..

Answer 4

We could also ask the question of why is it that women demand equality in the working field yet still demand to be treated like a traditional girl in a relationship. Life's full of double standards whether we like it or not. Just because we don't necessarily think so doesn't make them go away in most people's minds.

Answer 5

The double standard still exists, and that is just one of the ways it does. A lot is due to culture and what's "programmed" into us since birth. *shrug* Just fight the standard as best you can, and try to raise awareness of it's continued existance. That's how women finally got the ability to vote and go to college. They fought the system to change it.

Answer 6

Bacause on this day and age that is the way people are. And to me a man that sleeps with a different women each night is just as much of a s-l-u-t as a women if she sleeps with a different man each night.

Answer 7

Well, I'd bet that the guys that brand certain girls "sluts" either got rejected by that girl or are just pissed off (jealous) that she's involved with someone else and not him. Usually it's muscleheads that were born with extra testosterone and no brain matter.

Answer 8

yea..i know what ur talking..it's the double standard..it's gonna continue on too...just like stereotypes....i call it the "pimp vs hoe" contravery...

Answer 9

cause guys have to spread their seeds like natural animal instincts girls dont have seed's so there for they are just hor's

Answer 10

why not every one has double standards you and everybody Else rather you want to admit it or not

Answer 11

i prefer to call the girl a helper.