its a nice hotel in santa monica, ca. wut do u think?
2006-07-16 15:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by ilessthanthreeyou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hell ya - thats a lot per person!!What does it include though? and I'm assuming the hotel is a luxury resort type of hotel.
Questions to ask when considering a per person amount of that amount:
1. Is it open bar
2. Are hot and cold hors d'oevres included
3. Are all sercvice staff including bartenders fees included?
4. Is there any other room rental charge or is that it?
5. Flowers included?
6. Cake included? and cut up for no extra charge?
Watch out for the hidden 'extra charges' that hotels may charge for.
I would say a decent amount to spend per person for an elegant party is anywhere from $40pp to about $100pp. Although I've seen some beautiful weddings at beautiful places for less expensive. The United States Coast Guard in CT for example.
Also - whatever you do - do NOT take out a loan for your wedding day. You'll be paying back that $45,000 years after your wedding is over when you could have bought a new house, or saved for retirement, funded your future children's college, or even a new boat! Don't start your marriage with debt.
So like the other person said - if you can afford it and its not interfereing with your downpayment on a home, or paying back your student loans and someone in your family is rather wealthy - well then go for it!!
If you are not wealthy..that is WAY too much money for one day! Believe me - your day WILL be gorgeous no matter how much money you spend - its not about the $400 topiaries on each table its about marrying that special person and enjoying your day with your family and friends.
Don't have a wedding to 'impress'.. have a wedding to last forever in the hearts of all that attend. :)
Good luck!
2006-07-16 16:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by MM_14 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
One of the nicest weddings I ever attended was in at a private club Santa Monica. It cost $50.00 per person. If you are including in the price the music, photographer, videographer, and everything else related to a wedding, it probably isn't too much.
2006-07-16 17:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 10:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey that is an awful lot. But is is your wedding and it's up to you, but I'd save the money for the honeymoon or something else to do with the wedding.
2006-07-16 16:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have the money go for it. it all up to you. you can spend how much you want, you are the bride. but just make sure you get your money worth. don't let anybody take a vantage of you ask lots question. best of luck.
2006-07-16 15:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a lot but it might be average cost for your area. Look into it a little further.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 00:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i think its a hell of a lot. but damn!t its your wedding, and it should be perfect! if you can afford it then go ahead and do it.
2006-07-16 15:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Q the genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can afford it go for it, plus you are in charge of the guest so do what you gotti do
2006-07-16 15:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by clare26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
per person as in per guest or per attendant such as bridesmaids?
YES AND YES!
2006-07-16 17:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by pixiebdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
freaking expensive!!!
are you a millionaire, can you expense me a million or two?
2006-07-16 16:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lavender Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋