And they were married to someone else. Do you think they would still come back to you or cheat with you?
2006-07-16 15:05:11 · 27 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if they were married id stay out of it u wouldnt like it if u would have got cheated on so just dont do it u had a chance and that chance is gone just move on
2006-07-16 15:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a little confused by the question but i'm going to try and answer anyway.
first answer- if the love of your life came back to you, you need to ask yourself why they went away in the frist place. are you forgiving or being forgiven? that's a judgement call on your part.
second part- if they are married and coming back to you...dont bother, they have no respect for you or their spouse. if they respected either of you they would be willing to give themselves 100%. and if you are married, don't be greedy. get a divorce because you are unhappy, not because you would rather have someone else
third- dont ever wait for someone to come back to you. if it ended, consider it dead. never keep you hopes up that they will come back. its pathetic and the only thing it secures is the fact that they will be able to walk all over you if and when they do come back.
2006-07-16 22:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by lalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol they had to go and leave you to find what they need else where that should be a sign .. i would try to make amends wish them well but the past is the past you cant change only can learn from it.. if some one broke my heart why would i wanna take them back with the risk of them doing it again and to be married and then wanna start something with you knowing they are devoted to some else .. like marriage and wanna give that up how faithful would they be in the long run when its all said and done also to go hurt the person there with.. no one should get married out of spite... geezus what is the world coming 2
2006-07-16 22:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Get_Cha_Some 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what would make u think this was the love of your life if he went off an married someone else?
This guy who i THOUGHT I loved came back to me about 2 years after we broke up. He was 'leaving his wife' and wanted to pick up with me where we had left off.
I was unsure so I went out to dinner with him and we went to the beach and talked for a long time. However, after some deep thought, I realized that after 2 years I had changed! I wasn't the same person I was when we were together. I had learned from my mistakes and had grown up more and realized that I deserved better than that.
Don't hold your breath! Why would u want him if he didn't want to marry you in the first place?
Sorry, I dont' mean to sound harsh, but think about it! You should want better for yourself!
2006-07-16 22:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by kuklablue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they wanted you back then they should have came to you not married. I would watch out, even though you have strong feeling dont let down you guard. There could be a bad reason why he came back. I would not step into it till I knew what was going on with him and his wife.
2006-07-16 22:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are only coming back to cheat- if they truely loved you they would make sure they had everything in check before coming back to you. Cheating only leads to hurt and true loves dont hurt someone knowingly
2006-07-16 22:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by wesbajar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel flattered that they wanted me back but cauious. If they are married that's a red flag that things won't work out. I say yes, they would eventually cheat on you too. It happened to me so i know.
2006-07-16 22:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Margaret J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would work. The memories of the past may be fond ones, but much has happened since then. It may feel right at first, but there is a reason it didn't work the first time and I think that reason would become apparent in a short time.
2006-07-16 22:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't take that person seriously until they divorce. People will always tell you anything you want to hear and do just about anything to take the easy road out of you don't demand more for yourself. If he sincerely wants you back, he will start the divorce proceedings immediately. Then you can start planning your future together. Don't allow yourself to be used!
2006-07-16 22:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should have REALIZED this BEFORE they got married. PERIOD. I wouldn't trust this person. They leave you, go get married, and then want to leave them? Sounds like a pattern to me, so my answer to your second question is YES. They would cheat with you.
2006-07-16 22:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋