Ok i am dating this guy and he was picked up on a warrant while he was with me. He calls me all the time and always says that he loves me and he cannot wait to come home. His baby mama is bailing him out and is offering to bring him home because she knows that this is where he wants to be. He has been sick since he has been in there and crying all the time but now that he knows the he might be home tommorrow or sometime next week he is happier than can be. I really love him and am also pregnant i found out before he went in and he keeps telling me that i will hold this one i got history of miscarriage. He wants to come home soon to be through this all with me. He wants to marry me real soon like next month and i feel that he really loves me should i have any doubt or should i just wait and see what happens when he gets out?? I have tried to push him away so many times before this and he wouldn't budge at **** that most men would. Does this mean that he really loves me??
2006-07-16 15:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by psycholilblondegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
He loves the fact that your carrying his child Lady...
He probably loves you as well for staying by his side...
And you do love him...
So only you and he will decide what future you have together when he gets released and comes home...
The first priority is your unborn child..
And what would/will be best,for the baby when born...
You do want the baby to have a father that will love and provide for the three of you as a family...
And thats kind of hard if he hasn't as of yet matured enough to stay out of trouble with the authorities...
Just hope that he learned his lesson while incarcerated...
And make damn well sure your not going to put up with any inmature s*it when he gets out...
He will have to prove himself to be the father all guys dream of becoming...
The very best of luck to you,baby,and your man...
2006-07-16 15:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem young; hence asking a question such as this. I couldn't follow what you were trying to say, but it appears to me that you're saying that he is already a father, and his child(ren)'s mother is bailing him out (not you). He wants to be with you, but may possibly be going to stay with her? Either you really like drama or you are on the verge of becoming part of drama.
I say, in this situation, make sure he knows how you feel and see what happens. If he goes home to his ex, you may be better off without him. Be prepared for whatever.
2006-07-16 15:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama. If you like drama and trouble. How can he love you in the mist of all the drama. Take the color glasses off your eyes and see the real thing. You are not desperate and anxiety to have someone, take you time. what about the other guys that want to talk with you and you won't because of this relationship. OPEN your EYES and SEE the DRAMA with the BABY MOMMY!!!!!
2006-07-16 15:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Thang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you expect in the way of support for you and the child from a guy in jail? He MAY need you but that certainly is not love. If he loved you, he wouldn't be in jail with you pregnant. He'd be preparing a place for you and the child to live and he'd be earning money for your support and for the child.
2006-07-16 15:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happens. When guys go to jail they have what I call prison syndrome. Just see what happens if he is sincere you will now right away. Don't worry about him anyway. You just relax and take care of you and that baby. Whatever happens remember that you and that baby come first no what. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!!
2006-07-16 15:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by s. life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt jump into marriage too quick, perhaps this guy might not be a good husband, if you didnt know about this outstanding warrant, what else do you not know about this guy?
2006-07-16 15:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by steve o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes He sound like a dream .
2006-07-16 17:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme how, I doubt he really loves you, puddy tat! Besides, you dserve a batter guy, than him!
2006-07-16 15:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he does. Read between the lines.
2006-07-16 15:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by luvtinynips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
2006-07-16 15:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by (NO) NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋