i fell in love with this guy ,when trying to bring him and his ex together,but now ,i m deeply in love with him ,and he too is in love with me,but when ever i think of him and his ex,i feel guilty .wat should i do ?
2006-07-16 14:55:49 · 21 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his ex gf .just wanted his money and after getting her work done,she dumped him.and i was the only one,who was there to listen to him .and support him.i asked him wheather he loves his ex or not?he said that he did everything for that girl but she turned out to be a *****.and he is no longer planning to marry her ,but i m scared wheather he will be able to forget her compleatly or not?what if ,if she turns out to be a night mare for both of us?
2006-07-16 16:38:53 · update #1
Not love toots. It's called lust. Screw each other silly while it lasts.
See if the ex wants to join in.
2006-07-16 14:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you care a great deal abt his happiness if you were trying to help him get back with his gf. Maybe the fact that the two of you ended up falling in love is just fate and it is meant to be. We don't always have an explanation for love. If he no longer loves his ex gf the relationship is not going to work anyway. Looks like you were rewarded for trying to do a good deed. Don't feel guilty. It is just life.
2006-07-16 22:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his ex how you feel,if its over between them then she should be fine.If she is not at least your own mind will be at ease as you done the right thing and told her yourself before she found out from someone else or seen you.Either way if you are both in love then go for it;you are never guaranteed a second chance !
2006-07-16 22:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why feel guilty if you BOTH feel the same. Hey, the ex is out...and be grateful for this opportunity because that's what brought you two together. If she has a problem with it, too bad.
2006-07-16 21:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if his ex is not your best friend then no worry. If they are ex's then I dont see the problem. You two need to decied if you care that much to be with each other. Make sure that you are not going to be the next ex on his list.
2006-07-16 22:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this happens a lot. Well let me ask u, what kind of relationship do u have withhis ex? I mean if she was a friend u may be in trouble, if she wasn't a close friend or anyone close then I guess it may be ok.
2006-07-16 21:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it unless you and her were friends then I can't believs you did that. I'm just kidding I really think that no dating friends ex rule is stupid. They were done with him why can't you see if it can work? Go for it honey if you love the guy he's yours.
2006-07-16 21:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needn't feel guilty. You've done nothing wrong. It's not as if you'd gotten them together and them persuaded him into cheating on her (right?) so their isn't anything wrong with your situation. Just tell him that you feel a bit guilty and he may feel the same way, or he'll just comfort you, that is, if he's a worthy guy.
2006-07-16 21:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Confuzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop thinking of him and his ex girlfriend together. After all he's all yours now
2006-07-16 21:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sravya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if his ex doesnt like him back.........make sure he really likes you though and its not just a rebound or something....but other than that go out on a date with him a few times and see what happens
2006-07-16 21:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋