Okay, there is this guy that likes me and really wanted a chance with me, and he asked me for just one chance and i had doubts about it, but, then i told him that we would try it. Well, my friend told me that if i dont like him like i think i do and its not working, then to break it off after a week and i said okay, well i think she went and told him. Now, everytime i call him he says that he doesnt have time to talk or if i send him a text message then he wont send one back and so hes practically ignoring me. Whats his problem and why is he acting this way? I would talk to him about it but how can i when hes being like this???
2006-07-16 14:48:59 · 33 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would appear that HE is not the one with the problem. YOU have a friend didn't behave as a friend.
2006-07-16 14:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow; I think that middle man just sabotaged you. BIG time. What you should probably do is try and meet him face to face and discuss the matter. DENY having said that statement about the 1 week policy; keep that between you and God. And work from there. And I would advise you never to use that person for a middle man again. They're obviously not trustworthy.
And he's obviously not worth the trouble if he's avoiding you because of something your friend said without consulting you about it.
2006-07-16 14:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by eyikoluvsandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be rough. Hard lessons like that are hard to take. Lesson learned, don't be so naive, people talk. If you like somebody, just go talk to them, and don't ask other people what they think. You will find that it is hard to guess what your next move will be, but you can rest assured that the only gossip will be, "after the fact." It also means you will have to hear the 'other' gossip... the kind that comes later... No problem amigo... Some people should just get a life. Good luck.
2006-07-16 14:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit calling him and quit texting him. IF he is REALLY interested in you in a nice way, he would call you back and be courtious. Sounds like he's a waste of time. You might send him one last text telling him that you would like the chance to get to know him when he is not so busy. IF you don't get an answer, move on...
2006-07-16 14:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Not being rude, just honest. You're all playing those childish games and you need to get over it. I'm not sure how old you are. If you're an adult, you should be ashamed you're acting like this. If you're not, then you need to focus on more important things and wait until you're really ready for a relationship to get into any kind of drama. Tell your "friend" to keep her nose out of your business. Sounds like she's just trying to hurt you anyway. Good luck with this one.
2006-07-16 14:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by *~*~*~*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...huh? That question was too long. Try asking one that's more right to the point!!
Good luck.
Sounds like a player and always looking for someone better. At his age, they mostly all do that. Develop other interests to keep your mind off him If he sees that you're happy and successful, he will eventually beg for you. I'm dead serious. I've done this SOOOOO many times and it has always worked. I'm older than you, so try to learn from my experiences. I swear. They work.
Questions? Go to my profile and ask me anything. I would be so happy to help.
Good luck, sweetie!!!
2006-07-16 14:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Notnadia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know for sure that your girlfriend told him anything, but if she did, sweetie she's not your friend.
Regardless of what was said, he is giving you a very clear signal to back off. That's exactly what you should do.
If he is interested, he will let you know sooner or later. In the meantime, get a real friend.
2006-07-16 14:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what u should do is talk to this so call friend who went to him and told him what was said. Because his problem is he feels like he may be dumped after wanting to be with u for as long. And now he may feel it's not worth it.
Ur friend shouldn't have went to him because it was not ur friends place to do so, now ur friend may have blocked a relationship that may have been this best, but u may never know this now. thanks to ur friend.
So what u may also need to do is tell him that u really need to talk with hi to get a misunderstaning straight
2006-07-16 14:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just ignore him too. i mean, its not good for a pretty girl like you to be going around chasing guys...this guy in particular. if he does that to you, then it just goes to say that he is not worth your attention after all...or the attention that you gave him before. remember that you are a princess and you have worth and you deserve the best....and this guy is obviously not the best. so i say just ignore him and forget all about him. and worse, he's probably going on with his life already and doesnt think about you so it would be your loss if you still think about him and what's wrong about him. he should be the one asking this question and not you.
2006-07-16 14:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're gonna send a text msg then the Q should be why he is ignoring you. If he doesn't answer, just leave him alone & move on :) There are more fish in the sea!
2006-07-16 14:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she said something to him. Either send him an Email of what you want to tell him, or if he isn't answering your messages, send them anyway and he will eventually read them.
2006-07-16 14:52:37 · answer #11 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋