We haven't met in person yet, he lives across country from me, though he does want to come visit. I am 25, he is 32. Any advice?
2006-07-16 14:47:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ALREADY HAVE !!!! unless you slow down, NOW. . .
Making such a determination (soul mate) without yet experiencing close, physical contact (meeting) ???
And you are both over 21???? Where is your maturity?
I don't mean to rain on your recent parade, BUT --- you asked for advice. . . here it is. . .
Keep an open mind and heart - at least until he DOES make the journey to meet you - - - and try to get that meeting date set - within the next 3 to 6 months. Once you get at least that far, in your new, and very exciting venture -
THEN it may be time to say:::: "I THINK?HOPE?FEEL? that I have met my soul mate - - - but not "I have met . . .", as you are doing now. . .
What if you don't like how he smells (or he hates your odor)? These things can only be known - up close and personal. . .so, please slow down - and keep us informed of your progress, on this path???
New love - how wonderful and special . . . congrats.
2006-07-16 14:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but there is no such thing as a soulmate.
There are literally thousands of men you could have a successful lifelong relationship with. Take it easy and slow with this guy, and see him for what he is and not for what you want him to be.
The best way to screw this up would be to call him a soulmate before you REALLY get to know him.
Be sure you are in love and not just in love with the idea of being in love.
2006-07-16 15:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by sublimetranscendental 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so he isn't 62 and naked, LOL Just be aware. We had a friend (neighbor who was doing face to face with people she met on the Internet). She opted for public meetings at first then more chating. She married the last guy and lives in Texas with him. So just keep your eyes open for the wrong stuff and good luck
2006-07-16 14:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, he is probably married or a pervert or maybe gay. If anything, tell him to buy you a plane ticket to visit him. You will find more about him that way, then you can also meet his wife and kids. Make sure that when you get off the plane, you go get a gun or a can of mace to protect yourself when he attacks you. If it works out, can I come to the wedding? I heart free beer.
2006-07-16 14:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who date online are afriad of the most dangerous areas of dating: Appearance, conversation, and availability. All things are easier to get past when you date online.
But really, it just shows weakness to not have an offline relationship. You think you see a healthy relationship, but you really see a noncommitted white screen.
2006-07-16 14:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't believe someone CAN meet their "soulmate" online without actually meeting, dating, and doing things together.
Words are just that on the computer screen.
You haven't seen this guy in a variety of situations to know what he's really like.
2006-07-16 14:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship is very very hard to maintain....but it sure feel good i have my girl...thousands of km away she is in japan and i am right now in India...love is very strong on both sides...she has zillion problems and i am still with her...she is with me...the thing is ....if u both are strong enough to move on then let the relation ship go on...if not then avoid it...because it will pain at the end.....and always be prepared .... u never know....either of u can give up...if u are not strong...;) well good luck to u....
2006-07-16 14:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by ankit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone not across the country, thats my opinion.
2006-07-16 14:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also have met my soul mate online
yet, we are illegal
so nothing can be done till im 18, and i move in with him
u dont have to worry about screwing up
anything i do, or he does, we forgive each other
if u rely love each other to consider each other soul mates, no matter wat, it will last
me and danny are going to wait for eachother, we love each other so much!
good luck
2006-07-16 14:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too and i'm really nervous. My advice to you would be the same as I am going to try to do myself....Be yourself, smile and remain as calm as possible as you are freaking out. Oh yeah, don't forget to breathe.
2006-07-16 14:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋