My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is calling him on a regular basis.?

Question

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is calling him on a regular basis at work. He says they are friends. Is it normal? Should I accept it?
She e-mailed me saying that she could not live without him in her life. She also told me that I am pretty and she envies me. I find the all story odd. What do you think? He keeps saying that he will talk to her, asking her not to call, but he's not doing it. He's taking time. How should I react?

Answer 1

I understand exactly where you're coming from, and at the same time, you may have nothing to worry about at all... Please hear me out? Yes, she is an EX girlfriend - you are the CURRENT girlfriend. If your boyfriend wanted things to work between him and her, then he wouldn't be with you, would he? Also, a man and a woman can share a friendship that can be innocent as well. if this is a relatively new break up,then I might question whether you might be his rebound... But if it has been some time that has passed, maybe it's even possible that his ex also has a current boyfriend as well? Either way, your boyfriend should understand your concerns, voice not only your concerns, but why it bothers you - in a calm manner, without making demands. It will be much more well received if delivered this way, in my opinion... Help him see why you feel the way you do? It sounds like you may still consider her a threat to your current relationship... Though I may be wrong? Good luck! I hope it all works out for you!

Answer 2

Dont react...just keep aware...he doesnt need the two of you pressuring him at the same time...sometimes couples, when broke up that is, often have a hard time cutting it off even if they arent really seeing each other...she obviously is having a hard time getting over him...how did she get your email address? At least she isnt the hateful, vindictive jealous type....but she does have an issue. Just be supportive to him and act normal...but be aware.

Answer 3

E-mail her back and tell her yourself. That's what I'd do. Someone's gotta get the job done, right..? And if he has a problem, react by becoming his ex, like that other person said.

Answer 4

be careful, it sounds like she wants him back.
keeping in touch is acceptable, but calling him more than twice a month is too much. she is his EX, and she is going to have to accept that.
Tell him how much it upsets you, and that it is not acceptable, ask him how he would feel if you were talking to your ex all the time.

Answer 5

First talk to your boyfriend frankly and tell his ex-girlfriend to stay away. If it does not works, then just tell your boyfriend that if he does not stop talking to her, you will leave him.

But don't hurry. first make it sure that you are not misunderstanding him. if he is with you, his ex-girlfriend can't do anything..

Best of Luck

Answer 6

How long have they been broken up? She's obviously not over him, and there might be qualities about her that still draw him back to her, possibly a feeling of familiarity and closeness.

Put your foot down.

Answer 7

in my opinion it is not normal, you should not accept it or reject it. stay neutral. but you should be cautious because it sounds like your boyfriend still likes her and she obviously loves him. you should confront him in a calm manner and ask if he still likes her. see what he says and if he is undecided ask why. ask for answers but be careful of what you ask. be like a shrink basically. do maybe only three questions a week so it would seem to be discrete.

Answer 8

well you got the right name because there is some funnylove going on

Answer 9

you should react by becoming his ex-girlfriend.

Answer 10

tell her to stop or find out y