ive had offers but there wierd. plese dont tell me not to be pickky
2006-07-16 14:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lots of losers ask me out i always say no lol
2006-07-16 14:38:13 · update #1
NO! its not odd. there is nothing wrong with that. its better to be in a relationship when you are ready. and when the right person comes along
2006-07-16 14:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by bignbeautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would benefit from NOT having a bf at 14. Being 14 is a magical time, you get to really find yourself, develop your interests *photography, writing, art*.. if you do some self exploration and bonding with your friends, you will focus less on the boy siutation. Yes its fun to have a bf, however I think it can wait.. its better to delve into yourself, to figure out what you want in life rather than pursuing someone else. I wish you well. Getting a bf too soon can lead to you making decisions which you may regret later. Your body is beautiful and sacred and it would be horrific for you to be object of locker room gossip and other bs that boys your age are likely to engage in. Learn to pleasure yourself, and be very guarded with access to your body. You will be grateful when you are older.
2006-07-16 21:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by brandihoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy to hear that you are not involved with a guy yet.You keep saying no and you won't regret it. This is to young of an age to get mixed up in a boyfriend who won't last anyways. Get good grades and have fun in and out of school while you can,before you know it you'll be graduating with good grades to get a good paying job and you won't have to depend on anyone to help you pay your bills.You will find happiness at the right time in your life and you will also be ready for it.
2006-07-16 21:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is one bit odd. I did not have a boyfriend until i was a high school soph. Its not like i was never asked out, but i wanted to "find" myself first. I am glad i did that becuase i was comfy with who i was when i did first date. Trust me when i say your day is coming. just enjoy being a young adult because all that other stuff will come fast enough.
2006-07-16 21:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are normal. you wait until you feel it is right. relationships are hard work and take time and commitment. you are 14 you should be frivolous and concentrate on having fun, don't worry about having a boyfriend it will all come in good time **wait for the butterflies they are worth it!!!!
2006-07-16 21:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HON!!! i'm turning 16 in one month and i've never had a bf! i've been asked out before, but as you say, they were losers and psychoitc! so do not worry!
2006-07-16 21:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cirque Du Freak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not odd.
I didn't have my first real boyfriend till I was 16 years old.
2006-07-16 21:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a girl that doesnt have one and she is 16. dont worry u'll get one trust me. i got ALOT of guy friends if u want any of them.
2006-07-16 21:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch what you do, hormones are busting and they may want somthing besides your moms cooking.
2006-07-16 21:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweety....its not odd.....who told u that......
2006-07-16 21:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋