Whenever I call my bf and ask him to come over he always says he is busy. On Tuesday he came over and we were going to have sex but I had no condoms and so we did anal and he was acting weird after and I was faking an orgasm and he could tell and then he asked me 3 times if I had fun and I said yes.I said I always have fun with u. And now it seems like he is lieing to me everytime I ask him to comeover. He is laid back,truthful, and lazy and his parents don't care as long as he tells them where he is going. Is he cheating?
2006-07-16 14:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he really is busy in thought....he may be going through some personal issues making him withdraw...Hard to say if he is cheating but if he was he'd probably have a better excuse than I'm busy..
2006-07-16 14:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hidden*Halo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think from experience that the reason he is acting like that is because his pride has been shut down. no guy wants their girl to fake an orgasm and he is probably pissed or scared to have sex and you fake another orgasm. guyz are wierd and dont like you to know that they actually have a soft side to them. just talk to him just tell him straight up hey look are you pissed about the other day and talk about it. just let him know what feels good and what doesnt it will go a lot smoother.
2006-07-16 14:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by my_precious_wyatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in one of your other questions, you admitted that you were cheating on him. Basically, you're just asking if he's as bad as you are. Plus, you'll probably get HIV if you're having unprotected anal sex with multiple partners and no condoms.
2006-07-16 14:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Belinda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him cheating should be the least of you worries. You need to use protection no matter what type of sex you are having. HIV is highly passed through anal sex.
2006-07-16 14:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not all you have to worry about... if you faked it mayb your unhappy too... if your unhappy dont wait it out till he makes the mistake for him to blame. and its always good to talk keepin a relationship open. if u cant do that then theres no point to the relationship. u need to figure out if the relationship is worth anything... if hes juss another guy like any other. theres no point to stress
2006-07-16 14:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's afraid that he doesn't satisfy u anymore, but u both sound like u have a problem:you can't be open with each other.
2006-07-16 14:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he has low selfesteem! i mean he knows you were faking and he is really embarrased by it. and so in order to not feel so bad and look like a chumop he doges you
2006-07-16 14:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like to me that he is just using u and also cheating on u .
2006-07-16 14:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to much pressuring him,gave him some space.if he cares he will be back
2006-07-16 14:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋