2006-07-16 14:20:07 · 21 answers · asked by RyssaLynne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, maybe i should be more specific. a girl that liked him a while back said that he was cheating on me w/her. so when he called me i told him about it and he denied it. i didnt know who to beleive so we broke up...(sorry i didnt give enough details at first) so should i call him?
2006-07-17 07:36:04 · update #1
Baby girl leave that trifflin dude alone. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he can cheat on you and still have you hanging on by a string. First of all it's best to just forget about him because you already know that he didn't love you and respect you enough to stay faithful to you. Why would you ever want to cling on to that?
I know you still have feelings for him but you need to be stronger than your feelings. It's time to think with your head and not with your heart love.
Don't allow yourself to be manipulated by this punk not one day longer. Draw your line in the cement love and say F*** Off. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you give him the slightest idea that he can come back to you and do it again guess what? HE WILL. I GAURENTEE IT!
It's time to just let him be love. It's better to focus your energy on the best thing in the whole world. You. Start eating better and taking better care of yourself. Excersize regularly and start doing things that you enjoy doing. Make choices that will benifit you and your life. Keep a journal or a diary. Read back through it every 3-6 months. It's incredible to watch yourself grow up in your own words.
Take a stand little one and demand better treatment from the people involved in your life. Remember you control you. You're the only one that decides if you fly or if you fall.
My advice? Don't call him. Remove him from your radar and start living your life for yourself. Best of luck to you baby girl. I know he hurt you. I been there too. Just stay strong and sooner than you realize he won't even be a memory.
2006-07-16 14:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by ilah23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have feelings for him, if you want to call him and wish him a happy birthday, go ahead. But you understand that if you and him start to be friends you have to be that --friends. Don't try to play the girlfriend position, or get jealous of him being around or with other girls. As long as you guys settle your difference then it's okay to keep in contact, as long as you play your positions.
2006-07-16 14:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by ::.Mz.Allure.:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive that in these case U should always be guided by your heart,and do what ever your heart says.But don't forget Ur self respect as you are vey valuable to the mother nature/God.So think for a wile and get your own answer what you really want and do accordingly.
Take care
2006-07-16 14:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Srimoyee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wats wrong with you if he cheated on you he doesnt like you anymore Im sorry but thats life. Move on
2006-07-16 14:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Hektor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness is great and should always be given however, if a man is going to disrespect you by caring so little for your feelings he should not be allowed to do so again. if you feel you want to be friends with this guy, all I can say is be carefull he very well may hurt you again.
2006-07-16 14:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by hardcorepreecher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he cheated, i wouldnt want to call him but because i still like him i might just send a bday sms thats all. but dun fall into his tricks again if he were to return, its juz not worth it.
2006-07-16 19:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by sharonspoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a cheater, always a cheater. Find a nice guy.
2006-07-16 14:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooooo don't
remind urself how much it was painfull for u when u discover his cheating !! do u like that feeling ? would u like to feel it once more ??
2006-07-16 14:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It would show that you have moved on and aren't gonna cry over him anymore! You go girl! :)
2006-07-16 14:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he cheated on you why in the world would you even care about his birthday.
2006-07-16 14:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋