My boyfriend Michael is totally clue less, so he dosent know when a girl is hitting on him. Should I tell the girl that he's mine, or let this keep happening?
2006-07-16 13:54:46 · 19 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Step up and tell her he is yours and back off. But if you trust him you don't have to say anything.
2006-07-16 14:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense but have you been paying attention in English class? It is hard to read your writing. I'm not understanding your question either. First you mention that he's your boy friend then you regard him as "this guy". So which is it? Other than that, I assume that you're in high school because it's nothing but puppy love at this point. He sounds like a very flirtatious type of guy and enjoys the attention while he's in school. He appears to have learned how to be charming at a very young age which, apparently, is the key to winning any girl's heart and making her feel like a princess. When he is outside of the school environment, he probably has better things to do like hanging out with his friends, playing video games, and so forth which is probably why he is not as attentive. Therefore, his behavior signals the fact that he does not take you seriously as far as being a potentially serious girl friend is of concern. My advice to you is not to consume your heart too much into him because you don't want to set yourself up for disappointment if he fails to deliver what you expect the most. In the end, you will follow your heart's desire because you are young. Good luck!
2016-03-26 21:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your bf isn't just playing dumb and gives the excuse that he doesn't see it as flirting. Since you and the girl don't really know each other I would tell him to stay away from her. How are you finding out that she is flirting? If it's by him telling you things she does he could be trying to make you jealous. Hope it works out for you what ever the situation is. :)
2006-07-16 14:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by thinktink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, u can NOT let some girl come over ur boyfriend like that..i've been in ur place plenty of times...even when my BF and me went to the SAME school..this year we're going to different schools so its complicated...and each and every girl that tries to make a move on my man i bite her head off (not literally)...thats UR guy..not anyone elses...he can have girls as friends..but he needs to know his limits as well as those girls..make sure u set them straight..go get 'em girl
2006-07-23 13:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by r_thomas129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved in a bitchy conversation with her. You have to stay above that. Observe your boyfriend and see if he is getting off on this. If so let him know you are aware. If he really appreciate you he will not succumb and you both can ignore her.
It would be foolish to try and stop everyone who find your bf attractive and flirt with him.
2006-07-16 14:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, well whether you intervene or not something could happen - but if your boyfriend truly cares about you, he's not going anywhere. Feel free to tell him of your concerns but I wouldn't go any further than that at the moment.
2006-07-16 14:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no clue you have nothing to worry about. Remember he goes out with you and flirting is harmless. Don't let her insecurities get to you.
2006-07-16 13:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to the girl, and see if she's actually flirting. If she is, steal some of her friends, and keep a spy-eye on her.
~Thomas
2006-07-16 13:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, show him how psycho you are, and how insecure you are in your relationship.
Tell him that if he does anything with her, that's it, no more sugar from you. Give the guy a chance to show you that he is a real man. If anything, why don't you show him the kind of attention that she shows him? You can't do that?
2006-07-16 14:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jay V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to be the one to tell her to back up. Even if you tell her he could like the attention and let it continue or even encourage it to develop into more.
2006-07-16 14:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say if he really cares about you he will ignore her but if he doesn't have a clue what's going on then maybe you should tell her and explain it to him.
2006-07-16 14:02:22 · answer #11 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋