He is gettin on my last nerve with this b*llsh*t! He is 26 and keeps going out to these stupid college parties wit his family members all who are single and range from age 20-24 and it gets on my dang nerves! What am I gonna do?! I am not even a control freak but I honestly do NOT trust this sh*t! Can I do anything to get him to calm down?
2006-07-16 13:48:51 · 18 answers · asked by BigBrownEyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey girl i had the same damn problem and you know what i did i started going out and staying out as long as him and he hated it and stoped doing it
2006-07-16 14:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by makayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't change nobody, but if you can't trust him then I say it's best to follow your instinct. I'd say you can go with him, but you probably won't do that. Really just be honest with him and tell him your uncomfortable with it. He will either try to cut down, which shows he cares for you, or He'll continue to go, which shows he doesn't have a high value on your feelings. If that happens then it's time to find someone else. Good luck. :)
2006-07-16 20:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time he grew up, my 'partying' days ended with college, at around 22 years of age. You're better off without him, particularly if you don't feel you can trust him.
2006-07-16 21:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you must be crazy if you think there is anything you can do to make him stop partying. He has to want to stop for him to stop, and it doesn't seem like he wants to despite your feelings on the subject. Maybe that should tell you something???
2006-07-16 20:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honeslty think you should go out and party and get wild with him .you guys are young why stay home and act like 2 old bags .i dont really blame him for wanting to go nuts .if he doesnt want to take you with him to clubs or parties or you dont really want to do that then you need to sit and have a serious talk with him if you dont want to change or he doesnt want to change it might be time to break up but honestly i think this really isnt a problem go out with him or better yet while his out with his boys then you go out with your girfriends .he might not like that so once he sees that everytime he goes out you will go out that prolly will make him change real quick
2006-07-16 21:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yell at him! And tell him to not party anymore!
If that doesn't work, forget it! Just don't say anything!!!! Just keep quiet and wait until he calms down.
2006-07-16 20:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can sit him down and talk to him and say that he needs to calm down if he wants you to stay email me at summerbreeze3195@yahoo.com i have another solution but i cant say it on the computer
2006-07-16 20:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... You can't change Him... Trust Me on this, I've been there. The choice is up to You, but don't You think You deserve better than that?
2006-07-16 20:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't stop him. Find someone else who will treat you better. don't waste your life waiting for him to get his act together.
2006-07-16 20:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw your own party at home.
2006-07-16 20:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by soulvendor2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋