2006-07-16 13:45:37 · 24 answers · asked by bunniesrus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are smart..take your time..the right one will come along and then you can be pretty..smart and have a boyfriend.
2006-07-16 13:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times you are in the right place and just can't find some one. People will say that you are pretty and smart and all the right things and yet you don't have a boy friend.
I know how frustrating it an be to see your friends and enemies with some one and you don't have some one in your life. My advice is that take your time and don't rush into meeting any one for the sake of saying you have a boyfriend in your life.
Right now with Aids and all out there one have to be careful those days ......
2006-07-16 21:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a number of factors. Maybe you're just not ready. Don't concentrate on finding someone. Believe me, the right person may fall into your lap soon after you stop "looking." I can tell you this - if you find someone while you are looking, the chance are excellent that it will end up being the "wrong" person. Just act naturally; someone will appreciate you for who you are!
It could also be that your standards are high. There is nothing wrong with that, provided your standards aren't set artificially high, that is, almost no one on earth could qualify.
If you're pretty and smart and have a good personality, believe me, you will be swept off your feet soon! People like that are rare indeed. So just relax...finding the right guy should never be a race.
Enjoy and good luck!
2006-07-16 20:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Edward K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone says you are smart and pretty but what do you think, do you think you are smart and pretty? the reason i ask is not to be mean but men pick up on confidence and they like a woman who knows she is smart and pretty, but do not look for a boyfriend, cause if you look you will never find. Enjoy your life, and have lots of fun, and your boyfriend will come and he will be great!!
2006-07-16 20:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by vigilatequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know several women who are pretty and smart. They are also mean and cruel. Or are you the type who likes to show just how smart you are all the time? A guy likes ot feel special, do you make any feel special, or just feel like dirt?
Have you ever said yes to a guy when asked on a date?
Don't let standards go down just to get a boyfriend, you'll only get substandard boyfriends.
2006-07-16 20:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jay V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shy. but im going to give u some tips how to get one
If you do not already know him, then introduce yourself. Let him know you are there! If he is interested in you enough to want to get to know you better himself, he will add in some conversation eventually.
Show interest in his life. What's his favorite sport? TV show? Song? Movie? Find out and you will have something to talk about.
Make it easy for him to be friendly and talkative with you, but not overpowering.
Invite him to a party or event that you think both of you would enjoy together.
Be friendly with him alone until he makes it clear that he really likes you, and wants to be around you.
Just be yourself and let things unwind themselves.
At the end of the date, see if you really liked it or if you want to go on another or not.
Tell him that you had a nice time (e.g. "I had lots of fun. We should do this more again!").
follow this step in few week you mind have a boyfriend
2006-07-16 20:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be more proactive when meeting a guy you like. There's nothing wrong with you asking him out. You're smart so I´m sure you know that you make your own fate. Maybe you're waiting for prince charming to ride on his white horse and knock on your door, sorry that's not real life. Sure, you may get cut off sometimes (and rejection hurts), but hey, it's worth the risk!
2006-07-16 20:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I'm a very careful person and cautious as well. I might say "oh that guy's hot" but it doesn't mean I'd go out with him. I only date people that I think may have a future or something of that sort. I think it's better that way than to date some guy thats good looking that you barely know.
2006-07-16 20:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't found what you're looking for in a mate...or maybe you're picky!
WIth myself i've noticed that the ones that I want are the ones that I have to chase but the guys ready and willing;looking for a relationship are usually not my type.
Maybe you should take a look at a guy that you see all the time but this time...open your eyes and maybe just maybe you'll see your first boyfriend.
2006-07-16 20:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Hidden*Halo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you are smart !!you ain't got time for that right now. the time will come and you will be happy cause you are smart , smart enough to wait to make a pick. You go girl!!!
2006-07-16 20:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋