i dont know if thats how you spell it but im dating 2 guys at one time and i really need to brake up with one of them because my friend said its really really really bad to date 2 guys at one time. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-07-16 13:43:57 · 33 answers · asked by BrownEyedQT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you have not committed yourself to be exclusive to either one, why can't you date both? If you've told either one that you want to date him and only him, break up with the other. Otherwise, tell your friend to butt out and let you live your own life.
2006-07-16 13:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by rdnck_grl_ms_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think its wrong? Are you serious about one or the other? Its only really bad when the guys don't know that you're not really into them and they don't know that you're dating others. Its not wrong. You just need to be up front with everyone. Lets the put the shoe on the other foot. Would you like it being done to you? Probably not. Unless, you were all on the same page. Dating around is great. Until someones feeling are hurt.
2006-07-16 13:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by YBother62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong. If neither of the people are in a serious relationship with you or expect you to be only with them, then it is fine. Otherwise you will be found out and be the bad guy and feel guilty. Put yourself in their place. Would you want to be treated that way? You are really setting yourself up in a bad way. I would choose one of them and let the other go. This will be hard if they both are from your town though--the guy left behind may figure you out and ruin it for you, but you need to do it some way. I personally think you will find someone else who will fulfill you in ways that both of the guys do. Obviously they are lacking something that you are looking for in a relationship or you would not be going astray.
2006-07-16 13:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with dating many people- as long as you know what dating is. Dating is not mating. Dating is getting to know people and sharing time to see if they are the one for you to be with, and if not- to become friends.
If you are committed to someone, you arent dating anymore so yep- thats wrong to be with more than one person. If it wasnt, it wouldnt be so hard for everyone involved and no-ones feelings would ever get hurt. Dating is just dating. The more people you date, the better your chances are to find the person of your dreams. I know this is a hard thing to accept, but in my opinion- we shouldnt be sleeping with people we are just dating. Dating is a chance to make a smart choice, if you blow it by sleeping with them all- you will probably never find happiness. Dating is for getting to know someone to see if you like each other, and are compatible.
2006-07-16 13:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is WRONG. There is NOTHING wrong with dating as many guys as you want, as long as you don't have sex with them. To find the right person, you have to shop around. You should not date exculsively, until you find that special someone, then you can just date him, and see where things go in the relationship.
2006-07-16 13:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should have never even gotten yourself into a position like that not a good idea! are they friends or realated in anyway? Well let me tell you from personal exprience dont let the one that really likes you find out cause if he does its on from there like Donkey Kong.. Idunno if you will take my advise but take the one you have the most incommon with and the one you connect with if there is not a connection with either of them and its just for the looks and the sex loose them both
2006-07-16 13:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Reychal E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Soon enough you will be able to tell easily which one ( if either of them ) you want to be with for any amount of time. Don't worry about your "reputation".... I promise you that after high school and college you don't even know the same people, who cares what they think now if you know you wont know them in 5-10 years. Best wishes
2006-07-16 13:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "You are dating two guys." You are not doing anything wrong unless of course you are boyfriend/girlfriend. If they have not asked you to be their lady then you have nothing to worry about. You're just dating to see what it out there for you. Just be careful and not get your heart broken. Just take it slow you have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-07-16 13:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to 'break up' with either one of them. Sounds like they're good friends. Continue to be friends with them. That's what DATING is.....Seeing other people....getting to know them.
You're friend is probably just envious.
2006-07-16 13:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person. You must however not lead either of them on if they believe they are in a monogamous relationship. Make it your business to not deliberately hurt someone.
2006-07-16 13:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋