my gf wants me to give her a lap dance? any tips?

Answer 1

Slow and gentle, with a lot of full body touching, but no hand touching except on the face. Put your heat against hers, let her feel your excitement. You'll feel hers too, and that will enhance the experience. Depending on how far you're going during the dance, gently and slowly remove her clothes. Don't put your hands directly on her, or allow her to touch you, except to remove your clothes.

Sensually caress her body with yours. Move to the music. Depending on how "fast" you want the dance to be, pick your music accordingly. My boyfriend likes Louie Louie. (eye roll) I prefer a more languid approach.

It's not really about style as much as it is about foreplay. If it turns into lovemaking, then that's all to the good. Have fun with it!