my best friend asked me out and i dont no wat 2 say...all my frends give me different answeres but i have a feeling that our friendship isnt gona last after we go out...wat should i say??
2006-07-16 12:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by brunnet_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
n, but i still want to be friends, but explain why u don't want to go out with him so he won't think that u r just blowing him off. and don't lie. if he wants to stop being your friend b/c u didn't want 2 hook p wit him, then screw him. luv ya, lexi :.)
2006-07-16 13:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The fact u r asking about indicates u wanna say yes. Go ahead. Friendship can lead to bigger things, so no need to hold back for fear of losing a friend. U may just gain a lover or a spouse.
Life is about taking chances, the worst risk u can take is taking no risk at all. As Oscar Wilde says, the best way to fight a temptation is to yield to it.. Of course if he turns you on. If he does not, the answer is a simple NO.
Good luck and lotsa lovin , gal...
2006-07-16 12:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by yatin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be clear with him that you're concerned about keeping your friendship intact. You two might make an agreement to quit the relationship right away if things start to go sour. That way you could probably still be friends without any hard feelings that come from a long, drawn-out break up.
Anyway, my answer in brief is "give him a chance, but proceed with caution in the relationship."
2006-07-16 12:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Baron Hausenpheffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up and honest. Ask him what are his motivations for asking you out. If he is interested in you other than platonic...and that is not your wish...then tell him so. If he can accept that then maybe your friendship will survive. If not...then such is life. Either way you would have been honest and straight forward. This is a valuable trait to have in any situation. Emphasize that you treasure his friendship and you would consider it a loss if it were to end.
2006-07-16 12:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see him as a lover?
which it is true that the friendship might fall apart if the relationship fails, but hey if it is good enough friendship there will be more than enough room to "heal" even if that failed, even a good laugh afterwards.
on the other hand, best friends are people that are very close and knows each other pretty well... if you guys can understand each other and share the same values.. it might actually develop into something that is truly beautiful!
good luck to you!
2006-07-16 12:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you give it a try.
Some friendships bloom with the right conditions for growth.
Other friendships that are not strong to begin with will fall apart, but often it's for the best any way.
2006-07-16 12:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices go out with him and see where it goes or stay at home and never know. You both may find that its better for you to be friends than lovers and it is possible that you may just be meant to be lovers. Won't know until you try.
2006-07-16 12:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 04:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are a dime a dozen. Good friends are few and far between.
Is it worth losing a friend?
2006-07-16 12:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u honestly think it wont last then no.its better to stay friends than to end up both broken hearted and without a friend
2006-07-16 12:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋