Age difference?

Question

Hi! I'm in love with a girl almost 20 years younger then me. Can this work with our age difference? We do talk on the phone and today she called me to break it off with me. I was with her last night and gave her the best massage of my life then she said today she wants to be friends. I'm 45 she's 28 almost. What are your thoughts?

Answer 1

women are confusing enough - but with this age thing I'm damn near perplexed. You hear it all the time especially from the 18 to 30 bunch... Oh the guy I'm with is sooo hot... but he's so stupid and immature he only thinks of himself... I really need a guy who's wise mature, unselfish and will spoil me with attention. Or the young ladies say "oh I'm so sick of dating guys my own age, I like an older man because he offers me so much". But, when it comes right down to it these very same women stick with their young punk azzhole stud muffins and continue to get treated like crap... and continue to b*tch about it but are so f'ed up in the head to do the right thing. If you're dating a girl 20 years younger - god bless you and keep on keeping on. Damn agegists

Answer 2

Age can be a make or break deal but I'm going out with a girl 10 years younger. If she says she wants to break it off as much as you don't want to it would be for the best, don't worry there are a lot more out there and don't let age come a issue if she doesn't just stay above 18. I say, treat her right with respect and she will do the same no matter how the age gap may be.

Answer 3

well I think you should tell her that you love her and that age shouldn't come between you. You can also tell her that you don't want to be friends, you what to her lover and her friend. Try this man and if she still whats to brake up with you all, you can do is accept it and move on. Soon or later she will realize what she did was wrong and may try to fix the mistake she did. Until that be cool.

Answer 4

Well you are sure going to have a lot of gaps to fill in. If you want give it a try. Just realize she is going through some of the same things you did. Try to be her boyfriend and not her father. She will make mistakes we all do.
I would suggest getting a video camera for your computers and this way you can see and talk to her.

Answer 5

My wife was 19 and I was 40 when we married and started a family. Age is only a number.

Answer 6

Would be better if she was over 30.... but you can make it work. Circle of friends will be much different and remember when your 65 she will only be 48 and on the prowl

Answer 7

If it is meant to be it will. Things will work themselves out whether it is with her or someone else. Don't stress over it. It is not a life ending problem. There are tons of fish in the sea.

Answer 8

Sounds to me that she felt things were getting too close for her comfort. I say this should be a sign that she is not interested in anything more than friendship. The best thing is respect her and accept it for what it is and move on.

Answer 9

age aint nothing but a number. my mum has been with her man for 10 yrs they finnaly got hitched. he is 12 years younger then her. if your mrs was like 16 there would be a problem. take it slow with her i have no experience with this kind of stuff but my mum and her partner in crime are in love it took them 10yrs to finally marry good luck

Answer 10

Age is nothing but a number. If she broke it off, you don't have that to worry about anymore. Don't fool yourself, you will not be able to be her "friend", you are in love and she must not be. Let her go and love will find its way back to you if it's meant to be.