i have asked this question a bunch of times and i just want more answers so im posting the question at different times of the day to see how many answer i get...sorry im posting it sooo many times....
i really want to kiss my bf. we have been going out for over a month now and we havent kissed yet, but i really want to. i love him alot, and i think that kissing him would bring us closer together. i think we havent kissed yet because we are both afraid of what the other person might think. ive asked a question like this before and ppl have just told me to "go for it" but im way to afriand to too afraid to ( yes i have tried to kiss him but i chickened out before i even turned to kiss him!!!). what do you think i should do?
2006-07-16 12:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, when i was much younger, i, too didn't know what to do...here's what i did
i talked to him and told him that i liked him a lot, but didn't think that he really liked me...he, of course, disagreed and said that he did like me...i asked him then why had he not tried to kiss me...his answer was just a blank stare...i said that if we kissed and did not like it, then so be it...let's just do it...we did
i don't remember if we really liked it or not...and it took everything i had to say all that, but, he had been wanting to try to kiss me and didn't know if i would let him or not...sometimes guys are more afraid than girls...sometimes they just need that extra push
2006-07-16 12:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that as long as the both of you feel the same about each other then it is okay to kiss him. that is the least of your worries.dont let anyone rush you into something that you dont want to do. if you are too scared to kiss him then suggest it. just kiss him pop in some breath mints and get your kiss on. good luck and stop posting this question you'll get the same answer every time.
2006-07-16 19:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this: Lets say you take something of his (i.e.; his keys or whatever he has on him at the time). Now of course he's going to try and get them back from you right? Now he has to chase you! So let him chase you and then lay down on a bed or couch or something (with the keys behind you back) and playfully pretend like you don't have anything. Now he has to come close to you! Just look into his eyes and let it go from there.
2006-07-16 19:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so my area of expertise i am the dating columnist at my high school so here it goes - okay first go to his best bud and ask him what he thinks if he isnt sure what your bf would want then ask him to casually ask your bf if he wants you to kiss him and when you get answer you will kno! -- good luck!!!! -- the future psych
2006-07-16 19:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by talk 2 me guys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know how you feel? Maybe he's waiting until the county fair. But here's my advice- the next dozen times you're with him, kiss him, at least twice, each time.
2006-07-16 19:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say guys are really simple they dont require much and hes probably asking the same question but he knows girls are difficult to read...guys on the otherhand well like i said they are dumb just kiss him im sure he will be relieved that you did it and he doesnt have to feel scared of you rejecting him.
2006-07-16 19:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by mekellygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been going out for a month, I would say....kiss him.
2006-07-16 19:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he hasn't kissed you. If he really wants to he will kiss you.
2006-07-16 19:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by eel84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself and do it or just wait. Or say, "Kiss me" Not much else you can do.
2006-07-16 19:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably waiting for you to kiss him,so kiss him,or ask him for one
2006-07-16 19:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by BeGood. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋