A really hott guy a year older than me asked me to go to a school dance with him....He was REALLY sweet and I really had an AWSOME time with him....at the end of the night he was dropping hints he wanted to make-out I kept telling him no and I would like to get toi know him better and then he yelled and said it was a mistake to bring me here and found our grades slu* and started to make-out with her...so my question is would you blow someone off like that
2006-07-16 12:20:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to know if thats how all well most guys are
2006-07-16 12:27:47 · update #1
No I wouldn't and say bye-bye to the loser and go find u a winner.
2006-07-16 12:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it wrong thats true for starters but you have to remember that he might have been cinfusd and still is so he misunderstood and made himself feel bad so he blames you for letting him on right but it wasnt you he never asked you out did he did he once say he like you rather than what he would like too do tell me that and youl have the answer but to me its no its absolutely wrong
2006-07-16 12:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he was just looking to get into your pants. A guy that really cared for you would accept your decision and wait till you were ready to make out or whatever!!! So its his loss not yours he's just an asshole so move on you'll find the right guy so don't sweat it!!!! =P
2006-07-16 12:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by E R I C K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like, well like, I think like maybe like, he is a dick. I would have let you take your time. I still will if you wanna hang out. But after the third sate we better be making out (second base at least). But honostly, he really is a dick for doing that, but it may be because your younger. Many guys will think that if they are going to spend time with some one younger, they better get something out of it. I think you are better than him.
2006-07-16 12:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by nigel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by not making out with him.....you don't want the word to get around that ur easy......I mean, sure, you'd have alot of dates....but they'd be there for one thing only.....you need to be true to urself......NEVER make out with a guy before u get to know him better.......
2006-07-16 12:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy really liked you he wouldnt blow you off just because of that .i didnt kiss my boyfriend for like the first month when i met him and we where dating .this guy your talking about just wanted some a** for that night .screw him his a scumbag
2006-07-16 12:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not a cool thing to do. I think that you should wait a get to know a person before you get into kissing. But thats just me
2006-07-16 12:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by realpleya08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be turned off ig time if you gave in to that on the first date or the second atleast.
2006-07-16 12:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was obviously his main reason for bringing you to the dance. He has no plan to "get to know you better." He just wanted to get in your pants.
2006-07-16 12:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by eel84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol....he's obviously 1) clueless, 2) a loser and 3) a psycho. Just forget about him. He has no game.
2006-07-16 12:26:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋