OK.. so i went to a nightclub, and i was being goofy and dancing, like other people do. Then out of no-where there was this girl who'se eye i caught and she came up and started dancing with me. We danced for a while and then she left. I basically kept on running into her throughout the night, and id dance with her and talk and smile..etc.. Anyways at the end of the night as we were walkin out i could have bought her a rose but i didnt... then right after this i asked for her to write down my number in her cell (since i didnt have my cell on me to get her number) and call my cell (right there and then) so that i would have her number. Anyways i got home and i dont see any new missed calls from anybody. So a couple days later i was browsing myspace.com and i found her profile on there. So my question is, should i message her ? If so what am i supposed to say? Do you think that because i didnt give her a rose she got upset, or am i thinking into this too much? Anyways what should i do?
2006-07-16 11:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by palal9923 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Contact her with the sayings of... hey, aren't you so and so?, and let her in on how you was "browsing" and came up over her. Don't just come out and say.. Hey I can't stop thinking about you, why haven't you called me?.. cause if you do that then you'll look like a freaky stalker.
2006-07-16 12:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats a failure but a try....you can text her and let her know you saw that she has a profile on myspace. Let her know you enjoyed dancing with her and your conversation and just ask her if she would be open to more conversations? She can only say yes or no - and either way, you'll have your answer. We have to learn not to be so uptight about talking to people, and asking what we want to know. There are ways to do it so that you don't sound pushy or threatening. If you really liked her and want to see her again, start slow. She'll let you know if she is interested. Good luck.
2006-07-16 19:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find her again in the club. But if you are really sure is the one in the website I will write her telling her some details about that disco romantic night. Depends on her age and yours but I doubt she got uspet for not giving her a rose in the first night, why will a stranger like she will expect something from you the same nigth?
If you like her, you can send her email , maybe soon you will recieve a call from her....
2006-07-16 19:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no, I wouldn't message her. She had the opportunity to call you and she chose not to. While you might have been fun to dance with, she might not be interested in starting a relationship. Second, I don't think the rose had anything to do with her not calling you. I think you need to go back out and keep dancing.
2006-07-16 19:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U think 2 much not 4 a rose she did not call start again
2006-07-16 19:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by skywalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im just wondering are you a guy or a girl... but umm you are just thinking too much into this if she didnt call you then she didnt call you but that doesnt mean she wont just a good chance she wont well anyway good luck go ahead and message her who cares see what happens with her just ask her how she is doing and whats been going on lately
2006-07-16 19:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
message her and ask her if she remembers you from the other night.....and ya you are thinking way way way too much into this....but i would message her and ask her. she shoudlnt be upset that you didnt buy her the rose cuz i mean u just met her that night...if she was expecting a rose then she was expecting a little much dont u think?
2006-07-16 19:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by floydygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should write her. Whats the worst thing she could do? But if you don't write her you would keep wondering what would have happened. She could be the one. I don't think the rose thing had anything to do with it.
2006-07-16 19:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by REEREE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u message her out of no where shell probly think u were trying to hunt her down, lil creepy. the balls in her court if she is interested shell call you and you will know for sure that she likes u.
2006-07-16 19:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by dutch1584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it women arent like us they can just go out and have a "good time" and thats that its like vegas every night for them sometimes. i think you may have missed that chance. I BY THE WAY DONT BECOME A STALKER AND MESSAGE HER.
2006-07-16 19:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋