here we go again, oh no please?

Question

ive been sat here today in my flat, which im trying to get out of because of the loud, shouting, banging, and antisocial behaviour with young youths in great numbers who live locally in other flats round and about. today theyve been shouting, congregating in large numbers. blasting out music, at club party levels. i already suffer from bad panic and anxiety attacks, racing thoughts, and inner anger which i struggle with. every noise i hear i jump anyway. and im nervous as hell. i feel like a wuss and a coward sat here in my flat. but im afraid to go out, in this environment incase i lose control. today all ive heard, is cars skidding, engines revving, youths shouting and behaving intimidatin, im sat in my crummy flat trying to focus on my future and the week ahead, and all i can hear is bangs, loud dance music that penatrates the flat walls and vibrates through my flat. theyve already threatened one neighbor of mine for askin them to turn down the music. so im not goin to try 2.

all i can do is try to focus on gettin out of here where i figured ill be mentally stronger. im gettin intouch with an agency at the moment, but until then i have to stay here for an unknown time. today ive been really gritting my teeth annoyed at their behaviour. but theirs nothing i can do and i have to keep control or else ill be in trouble. the youths are only 17 but theres alot of em and there dead intimidating. the police have told me to go to my local authority, it aint there problem. im tryin to keep my cool. aaaaarrrrrrgh. god!!! can someone relate to me has anyone ever lived in a tough neighbourhood?

Answer 1

i would be calling the da-mn cops, everytime they make a noise, i do that to my neighbors and guess what the office is kickin them out, they have to be out at the end of the month, i aint scared of mine, yeah they are some big jiga boos but i aint skeered, the cops got tired of comin out and told the office about them and wooohooooo they are leavin

Answer 2

Never lived in this environment but one thing you said puzzles me. You said the police say it isn't their problem?? What the heck is their problem??? Guarding Donut shops are not in their job description...enforcing public disturbance laws is. Call your local Government Officials often when they get tired of having you call maybe they will make the police do their jobs. As far as panic and anxiety attacks...I would imagine that they are expected in the position your in.

Answer 3

I used to live in a crappy neighborhood too, where the scum congregated beneath my windows every night and broke bottles from beer and liquor and dealt drugs. The crap I had to deal with was not worth the cheap rent I was paying. For my sanity I had to move to a rural location.
Can you afford to live elsewhere? Do you have any friends that could become a flatmate in another locale?
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Answer 4

First, get in touch with someone who can come and take you away for the day.

Second, buy yourself some headphones and wear them.

Talk to your church and ask if they could help you find temporary shelter for your safety.

You cannot live in fear without it having long term effects on you. You must act now while you have the clarity to do so.

Good luck and God bless. I'll pray for you.

Answer 5

Go to a church in the morning. It will be quiet and there will be people with whom you can talk.

Good Luck

Answer 6

call the cops. if they don't help, get a pellet gun.