My fantasies are: 1. eating a creampie left by someone else; 2. being humiliated because I have a small ****; 3. being locked in a chastity belt and denied orgasm for an extended period.
My wife is rather vanilla, and would not likely indulge me, but I can't shake these fantasies no matter how hard I try!
2006-07-16 11:35:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I go outside the marriage to fulfill my fantasies?
2006-07-16 11:39:57 · update #1
i think u should discuss trying new things and slowly bring up your fantasy, maybe ease her in to them, if that doesn't work maybe u can try masturbation. after all these are fantasies YOUR fantasies, there's a possibility that if u told your wife that u wanted to do all these, it won't be fantasy like anymore, there would be nothing to get you going again. its a thought..... oh you could always go in to a chat and DISCUSS ur fantasy, not act on it cause then it might seem like ur cheating and there's a possibility u could get caught.... good luck....... enjoy the rest of your weekend!
2006-07-16 11:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by MrsChef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your wife... BUt these seem like fantasy's you will have to ease her into. Don't go outside the marriage.
2006-07-16 11:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by questionman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are partners for. If you married your wife its means you both are one people. You can share your feelings to your wife. Why embbarrassed to tell your feelings to your wife? She will understand but if shes the kinda woman who never listen to you. I guess the love between you and her is not burning.
2006-07-16 11:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if you don't try? Start by asking her if she has any sexual fantasies for you to play out and maybe she would then be willing to reciprocate.
2006-07-16 11:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by hljones1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to try new things. You should suggest these fantasies at an appropriate time, if she's not willing then respect her wishes.
2006-07-16 11:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being married dont tell her I know first hand. #2 if you go out side youre marrage ,you will have to live with that too.
2006-07-16 11:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by toolman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, maybe you should tell her! They are kind of extreme and weird, but if she loves you then she would more than likely help you out! Just don't make her disturbed, talk openly about what you want!
2006-07-16 11:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your wife. going outside the marriage could end it
2006-07-16 11:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by little bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will destroy your marriage tell her if you fill comfortable that she will feel comfortable and not freak out and if she is comfortable then she might let u do it to her she might already know that u have a small dick if u have sex
2006-07-16 11:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. try to make her comfortable in your fantasies. so that your fantasies will become natural and spontaneous.
2006-07-16 11:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by IcyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋