mens flies!?

Question

should you tell a bloke their flies are undone? or a woman for that matter.... i work in a shop and the counter is lets say groin height, so i notice some are flying low... but am usually too embarressed to say anything! how should i tell them?

umm and i would like just to add that one bloke didn't have any pants on.....

Answer 1

It's hard to say what you should do.
Some guys will wonder why you are looking down there.(while they stare at your chest)
They might think you're checking out their package.
If it's a coworker you should probably tell him.
A stranger off the street I would ignore it if nothing is hanging out.
Let him find out later and wonder if you noticed. Then he can be embarassed.

Answer 2

I just dont say anything unless i know the person that is, but if someone has got there flies down and you dont tell them its funny when you realise how many people might of noticed and not told them, then they feel even more like a dork.Thing is how do you tell someone there flies are open, Theres your change and your reciept oh and you flies are open by the way, No i would save the embarrament of yours and the customers

Answer 3

I love the question. I am a much older woman, and I would tell them if I was in the mood. If I didn't feel like doing them hat favour then I wouldn't. If I were still young, I'd have been more like you, and said nothing. And there is a risk that a guy will get smart with you if you tell him, so If I said anything I'd do it woman to woman - less abuse and real appreciation that way..

Answer 4

Yeah why not?? Something like hmmmmmmmm flying without a licence are we? Thats usually quite subtle! Or hmmmmm are you flies undone or are you just pleased to see me? Or even hmmmmm whats that smell?

Answer 5

Great question. I see it all the time too, but I never say anything. Personally, I think that I would rather find out on my own later and wonder who saw me than have some stranger come up and tell me...

Answer 6

Part 1: Yes (mens flies)
Part 2: Yes (ladies flies)
Part 3: "...just though you should know, your fly is a little low, you may want to consider lifting it a little.."

*v*

Answer 7

Most people really appreciate being told. They also wonder how long has their fly been open, and if for a while how come no one else told them. I think they will be more embarrassed then you!

Answer 8

Old Ned here backstage remembers when a girl's petticoat was showing below her skirt, people used to whisper to her, 'Charlie's dead'. You could bring that back for flies, maybe? Keep inspecting those gents trousers.

Answer 9

Wisper it in a non-attention calling way. You will, no doubt, embarass them, but it spares them the embarassment of walking around with their fly open all day and no one telling them but secretly laughing behind their back.

Answer 10

Why be embarrassed..what is the problem..something hanging out? Tell the person...Zip it up! No big deal. This is not a life threatening occurrence.