ok so i just called my best friend and she didn't answer. then i called the guy i like because him and i were suppose to hang out today. turns out he was hanging out w/ my best friend. the last time she saw him she said she would go out w/ him any day. she knows i like him and he knows that she is my best friend. when i called him he almost sounded like he wasn't too happy i called. i have known him since i was 10 so about 5 years and he always sounds happy wen i call him wats the deal and y am i so upset??
2006-07-16 11:30:01 · 22 answers · asked by floydygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either your best friend just turned into your competition or you can step back realize that you are still young , there are a lot of other guys around and that your best friend is more important to you than a guy. I hope that you will come to know that you are too young to be serious about one guy, keep your best friend, wish them well and move on to another guy. Life is too short to waste time being unhappy. Good luck and God bless.
2006-07-16 11:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by gmommy 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to find a new best friend. This won't be the last time she does this to you. She is not a very good friend to do this to you. You are upset because you like him and you feel betrayed by your friend. I know at 15, it seems like he is the only guy you will ever like (that's how everyone feels at your age), but you will meet and like other guys. Hopefully, you will find one that cares enough about you to not hurt your feelings by going out with your friends. Good luck.
2006-07-16 18:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by ohst87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're upset because your friend kinda snuck around you to get to this guy. Best friends should not go around and try to steal their friend's love interests. In all honesty, confront your friend, ask her what the deal is, and let her know how you feel about it. I wouldn't trust her too much anymore, but she is your friend, and friend are worth more than a guy anyday. Also, this guy isn't worth it. If he can get in between friends and make problems for you both, then he can do much worse.
2006-07-16 18:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre so upset because you really like the guy and your best friend went behind your back and took him. Things like this happen, all through our lives we will meet back stabbers. Must be cautious, but this just means the guy wasnt good enough for you. Try to find another one to crush on and tell your best friend how you feel about what she did.
2006-07-16 18:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if he isn't into you, move on, you deserve someone who likes you and wants to be with you. If your so-called best friend knew you liked him in the first place, but still went after him, she isn't worth keeping as a friend. You're still young, and I'm sure there are nicer guys waiting for you to give them the time of day.
2006-07-16 18:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur upset bc the guy u like n the girl who was suppose to be ur best friend (n knew u like the guy) just hooked up behind ur back.so with tht said what kind of friend is she? id say one u need to cut loose bc she knew betta n friends dont do that to friends. as for his sorry butt, he aint worth ur time.
2006-07-16 18:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a better guy. No one should want to be with someone who doesn't like them the same way. So find yourself a better guy to like. Try his own best friend.
2006-07-16 18:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are upset because ur friend know that u like him and if she is ur best friend that a slap in the face when u tell ur friend and she accepts a date. secondly can not be mad if u didn't make that clear to her if a situation like this was to arise what shouldn't be done because ur are friends and friend do not cut ur throat.
2006-07-16 18:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by lu-lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend talked to him about you liking him and now hes giving u a chance!
I know how you feel. When my mom deleted taylor off my list and told me he was a Big B as in *****! then I just wanted to just sit there and scream and cry! but not really scream, but just sit there and cuss, bich slapp and sceam at hur!
I mean he my babby!
2006-07-16 18:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wrong for your friend to go out with him and she knows that you like him and maybe she wants him 4 her self and that why yall aint talkin to each other but if she calls you trying 2 tell you wat happen tell her that yall aint friends no more and then tell her why and then be like you can have him anyways im am gonna 2 find some new friends that dotn do that.
2006-07-16 18:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋