my mom does not want my boyfreind and me talk on the phone or write to each other but becasue his family dosnt ike me and my mom dosnt like him we can see each other during school and i like to write its our only contact how should i solve this probley?
2006-07-16 11:23:16 · 12 answers · asked by daddys_booga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and my dad likes him, both of my parents are split up
2006-07-17 04:23:56 · update #1
i agree with Lil' moma J
2006-07-16 12:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really hard problem! U should talk to ur mom, and tell her the u really like that guy, and that she won't stay betwen u two! Ask her what she would do, if he would like a guy and her mom won't let her to talk to him! Put her in ur place and ask her what would she do...and remind her that u love the guy! She must understand, and if she does not, then tell her that u and ur boyfriend will go somewhere far and will never come back (u won't do that, but u must just scare her)! U must have courage to talk to her, and defeat her! She must have a soul...maby she thinks that by forbiding u to be with ur boyfriend, will protect u of suffering, but tell her that u suffer without him, more then she could imagine, and she must let u pass through all the fellings. U need experience, and tell her to let u have it! She can't just destroiyng ur fellings, and she can't command to ur hart nether! She must let u to convince ur self if that guy is good or not! I know that is easy to say and hard to do, but u must try! Don't give up! Give ur best, and u will succed! I know u will!
I hope that i was helpfull...
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-16 11:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur mom and see why she doesnt like him and if that isnt working take a look and see if he is the one u can see ur self with in 5-25 years with 5 childeren if u cant see this it wont work dear
2006-07-16 11:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of your parents was opposed that would be strange, but being both of them don't maybe you should write off this relationship. There must be a reason why they don't like you dating.
2006-07-16 11:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By doing as your mother asks. You dont realize it now but she has your best interest at heart. Your bf has only his best interest.
Respect your parents insight and listen to them. It is hard sometimes but they have years of experience to advise you on matters.
2006-07-16 11:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya so what they dont like each otha u 2 like each otha u dient ask ur moms or ur familys to date each otha. when will parents learn they cant control their kids lives they can just supervise them.
2006-07-16 11:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with your mother and find out why your mother doesn't care for this young man!
2006-07-16 11:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother knows best.
2006-07-16 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to the parents that why you need to, and maybe they'll understand!
My mom hated taylor, and I talked to hur, and now she just loves him!.
I mean, you gotta explain! to them why you guys need eachother and love eachother!
2006-07-16 11:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell u something u should solve your writing do you mean problem or probabley
2006-07-16 11:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋