Would you move on? Or would you help him staying longer patiently? Or would you take him to Dr.... or what else? How would you deal with that....or it does not matter if he makes you *** other ways....?
2006-07-16 11:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jumpy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My man had the same problem,but it is easy to help him,if you want to stay with him.When he is inside you,you can reach below and push your fingers on the space between his penis and testicles firmly,this will slow him down but it will maintain his erection. You could also try a penis ring (a sex aid),which he puts on before you start and will also keep him hard, the slower you go the longer he`ll last.
2006-07-16 22:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get very frustrated like I did with one guy!! He finished the job off in other ways but it was just a bore when I heard that "oops" and he clambered off or I had to get up.
Using condoms sometimes prolonged the action, breathing techniques, getting him to think about something else or take him to the Dr's it's not such a big thing now days, like most things it's been desensitised!! LOL sorry just saw the funny side of that comment!! ;D
2006-07-16 18:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him some of those desensitizing condoms. Get one of those books on how to stay longer. If he seems like he's about to go then SLOW down. Help him put on the brakes. If you're both young you probably don't need a Dr. He probably just finds you extremely attractive and can't contain himself.
2006-07-16 18:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by KM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could say be patient,& work with him,but I won't. You asked
what I would do? I'd find someone else because I'm a sex freak.
I'd be patient with him & I would'nt be angry nor disappointed with
him.But I'd let him know where I stand, & make him aware I'd
get it elsewhere.He could still be my friend.
Since you said he was your man, I assume you LOVE him.If you
love him you must stick it out no matter what.And face the fact
you love a 1 minute man.
2006-07-16 18:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUN! he might not feel comftorable. If I were you I would not move on because you'd throw away a pretty good relation ship just because of that! maybe you need to spend sometime at his house! and go out for a while!
Its kinda a guy thing that someguys do and some guysdont!
Just think of it hun!
2006-07-16 18:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You rub his back kiss him and play other things for about five minutes and then he'll be ready to go again..any young guy is good for about five times a night. Each time is longer. Eventually you'll be saying "Aren't you done yet ?"
2006-07-16 18:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by fata minerva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey been there done that. If you both are young just hold on to what you have. It might be that he is uncomfortable with things right now and over time he will became more comfortable with things. Love will endures all.
2006-07-16 18:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different things you can try, but maybe the first and easiest is to give him a job first, and then he will be able to stay longer.
2006-07-16 18:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by sanambrosio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to help him by asking him to see his doctor who would refer him to the right people. If that didn't work I would just live with it - if your love for each other is strong it will overcome any problems like that.
2006-07-16 18:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and take him to the doctor,get him viagara,then I could hang up my coat as well.
2006-07-16 18:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋