2006-07-16 10:58:47 · 19 answers · asked by needtohelpmysickbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her "no" or what ever your word is and put her down. They love to be held, and will learn not to poke, pinch, grab, if they get set down the minute they do it. They are smart and learn very quickly. In couple minutes give her another chance. Don't act mad at her, getting put down is usually enough to break their hearts.
2006-07-16 12:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jessi B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
redirect her with a toy or noise. You will also have to keep telling her not to pull off your glasses. I like using "stop" instead of saying "no" all the time. Put her hands in yours when you are saying this. If it continues, put her down. A little crying never hurt a child. This is just one way of handling it. There is no one fool-proof answer.
2006-07-16 11:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by hazyseptember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This worked for my family for generations
-First hit her hand
- then say NO!!! You do not pull of mommies glasses or hit me
- Put her in a time out
-give her a favorite food and tell her when your a good girl you will get a reward
(The talking to her will only work if she can talk/say some words)
2006-07-16 11:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one year old doesn't understand aggression.
She is just doing what 'comes natural', so it is up to you to help her understand that hitting and grabbing isn't acceptable.
When she does it, hold her hands across her chest for a few seconds, look in her eyes and say "no" very firmly about 3 times. It will take a lot of patience and persistance on your part but she will finally get the message.
2006-07-17 08:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my country, we have a show called "Super nanny", where a family calls this nanny to make of their bad child, a good one. U must have a autoritar voice in front of ur child, and scream a little at him. U must show him what's good and what's bad, from a little age, as is ur child right now! Give him reward when he does something good and when he is obedient, and scream at him when he does bad things! When he will be bigger, about 3-4 years old and he is still doing bad thigs, the u must take hes toys away from him, and give them back when he will be obedient! I saw all those and many other stuffs on "Super nanny" show and it really worked! where are u from? I do not know if u have this show there, where u leave too, but if u have, then watch it! I know that this show is in SUA and Romania...but in other countryes i have no ideea!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-07-16 11:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does it, grasp her wrists and say NO! in a firm voice, then promptly put her down in her playpen. Don't make a game of it, that will only encourage her. She needs to learn that hitting and grabbing your glasses are strictly forbidden and that when she does it she will not get further attention from you. She will probably cry the first few times, but leave her in her playpen until she calms down and gets interested in another toy, she will make the connection soon enough.
2006-07-16 11:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, maybe you should take off your glasses when you handle your One year old( I do this!). Secondly, playfully, No, No No hitting! And then start tickling the heck out of your child! Kids love this and it also gives you a chance to bond with your playful One year old!!!!!
2006-07-16 11:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG... my niece used to do the same thing... she had an obsession with my eyeglasses but she eventually just grew out of it. It's fun for them at about that age and younger to pull them off because they can illicit a rersponse from you and its usually funny and she'll giggle... but eventually she'll move onto other things... have an interesting toy or an interesting noisy item near by for distraction so instead of focusing on your face for a few minutes she'll make a "B" line for what ever it is you have in your hands....
2006-07-16 11:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a passing phase, trying to reason with a ALMOST ONE YEAR OLD is futile,if you need to do something when she acts up just put her down and walk away,it may take a few times before she realizes that what she is doing is wrong and she will stop.
2006-07-16 11:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!!!!!!!!!! spank them it just teaches them to hitting return gets hitting. let her know that it makes mommy sad and put her in a one minute time out. its called thee naughty mat. let her see that there is discipline for her naughty actions. put the mat where she can still see everybody having fun and conversing. if she gets up put her right back there. put a timer to remind the bout of you when her time is up.
2006-07-16 11:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by natty b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋