We live in LAHORE , PAKISTAN . on sunday 16.7.06 we have recently bn looted near univesity campus. The 2 rascals were on new bike and forced me n my family to get out of the car but we didnt n those rascals were pointing the gun at my father that instantly my mother handed ove her pure gold bangles about 1 lac THANK-GOD evey one is safe but that insident is still roaming about in our eyes we think we have some kind of FOBIA of getting out of our homes,when ever we close our eyes those two ***** appear in front of our eyes we feel so weak it feels like we r a structure whice have nothing inside n our brain spins round n whiring around we have informed it 2 police AND THE BIG THING IS THAT WE FEEL SCARED THAT IF MY MOTHER HADNT HANDED OVER HER BANGLES AND WHAT IF WE DIDNT GIVE WAY TO THEIR REQUIREMENTS, please help we are surrounded with high mental problems (glad if u will help)
2006-07-16 10:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
the thing is it is very unlikely that it will happen a second time in yr life. this does happen to ppl its not nice but the one thing to remember is that you are alive and healthy dont let this take over yr freedom as a person. get on with yr life as normal you will find all will be the same for you. this is just one of those nasty tests that life springs on us to make us grateful for what we still have. this article has a peice on depression that may help you
2006-07-16 11:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You and your family have certainly been thru a lot and a very shocking experience. But you should have faith in God and not become paranoid about the whole situation and stop going out. It was a bad day for you and you should try and put it behind you as soon as possible. And what those people did to you be sure that they will have to pay 100 times more than what they did to you. Also you should be thankful that they just took the money and material things which can be replaced and spared your lives and did not hurt you physically. Money can be replaced life taken cannot. Take care
2006-07-16 17:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother was right to give up her gold. Life is more prescious by far than material things. Don't really know what to say to help with the depression other than to tell you that there exists a God in Heaven that is seeing all things and he will definately bring relief from all suffering and unrighteousness soon.
2006-07-16 17:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like PTSD post traumatic syndrome. this is normal and yes it takes a while to get over you need to talk to each other maybe a counselor could help. You can't stay locked up for one thing you have to get out and keep living or the F***ers when. Hang in there...
2006-07-16 17:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by spicy girl 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry that this happened to you and your family, you shouldnt be scared anymore because it is in the past ... you may not believe this but it happenes everyday all over the world and that is a shame... thank god for your mother, it was truely a blessing that she was there
2006-07-16 17:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by casielynne1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you report this to the proper authorities? Of course, living in Paksastan, your laws would be some what different. Do you have any artillery and guns? You could go after them.
2006-07-16 17:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk face-to-face with a professional. You seem to be suffering from post traumatic stress and it needs to be treated or else it will affect you and your family in the future you even seem to be developing a form of paranoia. Please go seek help from professionals immediately. I'm sorry that happened to you and your family.
2006-07-16 17:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Crissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest mental health clinic they base it on your ability to pay and can be free. Good Luck. Also in the phone book is crisis intervention numbers that may assist you. Good luck:-)
2006-07-16 17:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink milk, you and your famili and it will pass
2006-07-16 17:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by aristidetraian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋