i met my boyfriend after his wife lefted him she cheated on him and she is pregnant with someone else's child he filed for divorce after he found all that out and now we are together we talk about getting married and having kids together i wondering should i stop talking to him until he gets his divorce or should we continue as we are cuz i know he aint seeing his wife but i dont really know cuz he lives in another state than me what should i do
2006-07-16 09:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him then you will give him the benifit of the doubt! I think that if he is trying for a devorce than you should keep talking to him! I mean come on don't wait till the divorce is final!! My friend went through the same thing! He is doing good and happly with a very wonderful women now! Good luck and I can only say........ Don't let the ex-wife intimdate you! She is going to be jelouse of you! Good luck hun!
2006-07-16 10:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ashton's Mommy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all he should not be your boyfriend if he is still married and secondly, why would you commit yourself to someone who can't commit to you. Rarely do long distance relationships work out and if they do it certainly is not worth putting your life on hold to wait through years of divorce. Tell him that he needs to take care of his business before you can make any kind of promises or commitments. Do yourself a favor and do not get sucked into his drama or you'll only set yourself for heartache. Get out there and keep looking for someone who can fully commit to you. There are plenty of nice single guy out there, you just have to look in the right places...
2006-07-16 17:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen here, my BF went through the big "D" while we were together, we would always talk about marriage and now we've been together for 2 1/2 yrs. and still no marriage. we finally set a date for next yr. but now things are happening that tell me that he don't really want to marry. My advice to you is to move on, you might be waisting your time. but that's just my view because of what I'm going through. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-16 17:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by NS42day 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see this is the problem. You started going out with this guy and let's be honest...it does not matter what his ex wife did wrong. He cheated on her with you and now what? You do not trust him. If you did you would not be asking this question. This relationship is going nowhere you will never be able to trust him 100%. I'll tell you something my mom always told me about guys remember: IF HE'LL DO IT WITH YOU, HE'LL DO IT TO YOU!!! Trust me drop him! You are wasting your time on this relationship.
2006-07-16 17:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best in such a relationship is to be honnest to yourself do you wanna be caught in the middle all the time cause I wouldnt so leave him if he aint gonna leave her then he sure as hell is using you and is gonne leave you aand if he never does the you are going to feel guilty for it cause she is gonna blame you for all that went wrong and he is going to be angry and sad and you will always have to ask him whats wrong so you will take the blame on yourself so it wont be goos if you keep going out with him thats my straight and honest opinion
2006-07-16 17:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, after reading all that i can definitely say you deserve a lot better then him. i don't want to make him sound horrible or anything, but i know you deserve someone in the same state, who isn't married...and someone who is attached to only you!
2006-07-16 19:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should get his divorce finalized if you two are going to continue a relationship.
2006-07-16 17:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is married too.he is in the middle of his divorce. if you think he is cheating on you then say something to him about it and you can probably tell if he is lieing.
2006-07-16 16:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee you must've met that loser on the internet
2006-07-16 17:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him now
2006-07-16 16:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋