i have asked this question a bunch of times and i just want more answers so im posting the question at different times of the day to see how many answer i get...sorry im posting it sooo many times....
i really want to kiss my bf. we have been going out for over a month now and we havent kissed yet, but i really want to. i love him alot, and i think that kissing him would bring us closer together. i think we havent kissed yet because we are both afraid of what the other person might think. ive asked a question like this before and ppl have just told me to "go for it" but im way to afriand to too afraid to ( yes i have tried to kiss him but i chickened out before i even turned to kiss him!!!). what do you think i should do?
2006-07-16 09:25:28 · 10 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear is a very powerful motivator, but I ask you, wouldn't you be more afraid not to?, kissing is a form of affection that is common in our society, and your right in saying it would bring you closer together, that's why it was invented, to acheive the closeness that a relationship needs to survive, if you cannot find the courage, then I'm almost sure your relationship with him is doomed, the only thing you should worry about is SHOWING him how much you love him, not what he thinks or what anyone thinks for that matter, and if he loves you as much, he won't be worrying about what you think, just that your showing each other the love and affection you have for one another. good luck!
2006-07-16 09:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say bring up a conversation about it. ask him what do u think of kissing. like whats ur style, what do u like, just start talking. or make it a random question in another conversation with him. find out about it. if you two start talking on it. maybe u can get to if u both want to and when u want to do it. otherwise if ur not going to even try that then all i can say is take a chance and go for it.
2006-07-16 09:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should write him a note or an e-mail or something, and tell him that you're ready to kiss. Or just try and give him hints, like sit close to him and touch his hand and stuff. Hope this helps! Good luck!
2006-07-16 09:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by babyrooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you of AGE to be having a Boyfriend? It is nothing we can tell you. But I will say to you that if you KISS him and you are NOT OLD ENOUGH, then YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY SORE MOUTH. AND YOUR LIPS MAY TURN COLORS. AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO TO SEE A DOCTOR AND YOUR PARENTS WILL BE VERY UPSET. AND THE BOYFRIEND WILL NOT TALK TO YOU AGAIN.
2006-07-16 09:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if ya'll have just been dating a month you dont love him you just think you do...but as for the kissing just do it thats the only way to find out what will happen
2006-07-16 09:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by rose05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ready fo it yet wait till your ready to kiss him u will know when the time is right
2006-07-16 09:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky23 (Barça: Més que un club) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRS OF ALL HOW OLD U BOTH ARE...AFRAID OF WHAT HE MAY THINK....COME ON.....UR JUST KISSING NOT HAVING SEX....
2006-07-16 09:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a love movie together then maybe it will happen.
2006-07-16 09:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep trying it will happen eventually...dont rush it
2006-07-16 09:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by peer omer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-07-16 09:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋