I mate this guy this name is shift and my name is tameika we were talking no the phone and no the computer for some days now and we had sex no the frist date but i had fun.he has a girl but he say he is not happy with her ...that is way he going out with other girl.I ask him way can he leave her he say its comlesaption I dont not if he like me or what he think about me .he say nothing about what he think about me
2006-07-16 09:23:02 · 14 answers · asked by kalya h 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ New York City
He's using you. He is not going to leave is girl for a one night stand. Get someone else and don't sleep with him on the first date.
2006-07-16 09:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alej 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Is English your first language? Or are you learning English as a Second Language? If so, nice try. Needs a little more work, though, especially in spelling.
About the guy you went out with -- are you out of your mind to have sex on a first date? He was probably laughing all the way home. What an easy touch you were! He's old history. He won't be coming back, so forget about him and concentrate on meeting some new guy, who is a lot more respectful of you. And don't have sex on the first date. Or the second. Or the third. If he likes you, he'll come back and you can build a relationship. If he doesn't you're just going to wind up weeping again.
By the way, I hope you know about, and practice, safe sex and contraception!
2006-07-16 10:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had fun.
OK, are you having fun now? Worrying about whether or not he cares for you?
You do know that it's a lot easier for (many) guys to have fun and then forget about it than for (many) girls, right?
If he's going with someone else and says it's too complicated to leave her, then no, you haven't got a chance. Although he'll probably be willing to continue to have sex with you as long as you don't get in the way.
You had sex with him and NOW you're trying to decide if he LIKES you?!? Next time, try doing it the other way around.
2006-07-16 09:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....he is using you for a F.... puppet.
By the way you use your English, it is perfectly clear you have no idea what is going on!
So continue having sex with him and don't worry about anything else, just have fun!!
Eventually you will find out, that it is "wrong" to have sex with a taken man.
2006-07-16 09:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by AUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you should have wait a while i know you had fun and all but . Guys are like that they say they don't like there girl and all but a some guys just lie . I know how you feeling you feel like i like this guy and i well do any thing to be with him but be careful make sure he really does like you and please don't have any more sex with a guy you just meet he well only hurt you heart . sincerely take care .
2006-07-16 10:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by ELIZABETH L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you used protection.
This guy is not going to leave his girlfriend for you. He is a cheater. Don't put out on the first date, have more respect for yourself.
2006-07-17 00:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER have sex on the first date, that shows that you have very low self esteem and are desperate. A man that cares for you will wait for you. ..and you won't have to wait around for him to call you.
2006-07-16 13:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the only lady in a collection of boys additionally and such as you have carried out issues with a number of them yet those that don't have girlfriends could be up for shifting right into a dating with me, cos they understand me nicely, get alongside nicely, believe me etc.. possibly it is only you.. I dunno.. Sorry if that may not what you had to hearken to. x
2016-11-02 04:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell does this have to do with dining out? Learn to spell. And what is the question?
2006-07-17 01:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mvoe on..guys re trouble..the good one will not have a gf and want you for you
2006-07-17 11:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋