he had a 3some once...but claims he's over that, and was just "trying something"....will i ever be "more then enough" for him? should i believe him when he says i am?
2006-07-16 08:48:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah they can be happy with just one girl.
2006-07-16 08:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by nicole24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think on some level all guys think about 3somes, but few act on it. I believe you would know how genuine he is just by getting to know him. I guess it also depends on how long ago said 3some occurred. If this was a recent thing, I'd be less apt to believe him. If it was a long time ago, then that is probably where that type of thing stays. But, having said that, I AM NO EXPERT!
2006-07-17 10:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Fox Paws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a threesome is just something that u can try once for fun but after that u might never want to do it in your whole life. its like a really uncomfortable experience ... which could really make u self cautious and u end up not enjoying sex at all. believe me a 2some has many more intimate moments than a 3some and is much much better. neway, he has got just 1 sensitive part that is his penis ... and i am sure one girl can comfortably handle 1 part with her mouth, hands and .... u know what. A girl with sensitive breasts and vagina might actually enjoy 3some more.
2006-07-16 15:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by thegame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the guy in question. He may have had the threesome and didn't really find what he was looking for. But, if he is still a very highly sexual person then he may not be satisfied. All you can do is ask yourself is he worth worry, or is he worth being adventuresome with in a 1 on 1 relationship. You may try new things you havent tried and not a threesome. But, if sex is all he thinks about then its time to move on.
2006-07-16 16:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. For the record, there is nothing wrong with experimentation - therapy isn't needed just because he had two women at one time. I think the big problem here is your self esteem and self worth. Try staying single until you truly believe you're worth it. Having a boyfriend can't make up for or 'fix' low self esteem; that's something you need to figure out first.
To answer your question, of course one is enough. Do you really think that this guy wants to have to put up with two women at a time forever? That'd be hell.
2006-07-16 16:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was the threesome? Has he received therapy or counseling so he can learn why he thought he needed three (two?) sexual partners at once?
I believe in saving sex for marriage, and this is one of the reasons. I recommend you go very slowly with him. Don't "give it up" until you can reasonably believe, and feel comfortable with the idea, that you are his one-and-only. I'd say marriage, but that's up to you.
If he's only in it for the sex, whether it's with only you or with others, that is, if he's insisting on sex from you or it's no go, dump him. I recommend you find someone who will appreciate your whole person, not just your body parts.
2006-07-16 15:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your relationship and how long you been together. If your looking for a committment with one, I would steer clear of the threesome man. You can get VD and who knows plus a broken heart and not a trusting relationship. Sounds like the trust thing is not there already. Keep searching and dump him...
2006-07-16 15:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could a girl who has had a threesome be happy with just one guy again?
2006-07-16 15:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had many 3somes with my ex wife and her sisters.here it is almost ten years later and i am hapily married and wouldnt dream of a threesome. yes it is possible.
2006-07-16 15:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by crzy_papa_smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,just about everyone i know has experience in a threesome at least once,And just because you tried it,it does not mean you'll want that always.If you really love the person your with they will always be enough:):):):):)
2006-07-16 15:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋