hey, i realli like this guy and i asked him out but he sed no becuz he thinks we r btter of m8s! i told him how i feel and he told mehow he felt and he feels the same but wont go out with me! now what do i do because he knows my feelings and i know his.. so do i w8 4 him or just forget about him?!!?
please help me someone!!xxxxxx
2006-07-16 08:42:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accept him as a friend and hope that he might change his mind ,the alternative is ruin your friendship and not have him in your life at all ,I know which one i would choose but the choice is yours !
2006-07-16 08:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes being friends with you and doesn't want a relationship to ruin that. (A side note some people may not know that m8s means "mates" or "friends") If you two are age 17+ and if he isn't dating someone then you should try to show him that it won't change anything. Possibly try putting something sexy on and flirting with him some. He should take notice and realize what he could be missing. If this makes him mad then of course apologize after and tell him you just want to give it a try very slowly.
If he's dating someone then he probably feels guilty liking you more. Especially if he didn't know you felt that way. I'm not sure if I'd want to risk breaking someone up, so maybe just wait until there is an opportunity to go further.
The final point is he needs to feel comfortable and to believe when you say that if something happens between you and it doesn't work out then you will still be able to be friends like you were before. He doesn't want it to be weird after. So if it doesn't work out of course you have to go back to being friends with him or he'll really be mad.
2006-07-16 08:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by KM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sorry about whats happend, but it seems you really like him and coz you have opened you heart to him, i think hes told you that he feels the same coz your his friend and he he doesnt want to hurt you, even though deep down it does hurt. You believed him coz you like him and really he shouldnt of told you he feels the same as you do because what your feeling is different you want a relationship and its clear he doent coz he said he wanted to be your friend, i know its hard for you coz you really like him and i know he will always be in your head and you cant stop thinking about him, but i would just try and forget him and move on, there could be a million guys out there for you,much better than this one at this moment in time. I wouldnt wait for him as he may never want a relationship with you but now you told him he might think about it and come round, if he sees you with someone else he might realise but i wouldnt wait as it may never happen.There cant just be this guy you like. You might meet someone who is much better so dont waste your time on this one go looking for another. Wait for him to come to you but in the meantime dont put other relationships you could be having with other guys on hold just coz your waiting for him.
Hope you sort things out, know how you feel, big hugs
2006-07-16 09:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you end this now it is going to be a lot a lot less stressful than it will be later. It sounds such as you're already sturdy friends so having a sexual courting with this female may advise that you'll free besides it went. you favor to have that talk at the same time with her ASAP.
2016-12-10 10:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt what u want to hear but u move to move on rudegirl, trust me ive been there and in the end its ur sanity its gona damage if u dont. And hey u never kno in future when u both mature a bit he might change his mind. Its gona b hard for u to move on but it is seriously for the best
2006-07-16 08:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy English Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is scared because you both get on so well...sometimes it happens when you find a girl you get on with and like and you just think it will all disappear if you turn it into a relationship!!! I know it sounds really wimpy, but we ARE men!!!!
2006-07-16 10:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been turned down...move on at least you know the score, stay friends there is no harm in that!
2006-07-16 08:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick his head down a toilet and flush.
Repeat untill he invites you to dinner...
2006-07-17 07:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by NotsoaNonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy to be mates,he doesnt want to lose what you have now.
2006-07-16 09:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that entirely up to you as to whether you want to wait or not.....How could anyone possible know how you feel.........
2006-07-16 08:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋