My girlfriend and I have seen each other 4 times. We kissed the 1st date, cuddled on the 2nd date, and the last 2 times we have reciprocated oral sex. She REALLY wants to have sex, but I'm wary because a) I'm not sure if she's "the one" and b) from my experience, sex changes everything. What should I do?
2006-07-16 08:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by polarbearis1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to wait until you are completely comfortable with it. tell her that you are not ready, and if she is "the one" then she will accept that answer and respect your decision. wait a while, my girlfriend and I waited a year before we did, if you want this relationship to last make sure that you two emotionally connect and fall in love so that your relationship doesn't become all physical.
2006-07-16 08:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait , do not go too far. Is she a virgin or "experienced" . You can continue present status, this may satisfy you and her. You can go a little more. Open her lips, insert your penis just a little bit, massage her clitoris . She can masturbate you, you can masturbate her. There a many ways not to consume whole thing.
When you are sure about bilateral commitment go further, all the way into her vagina. You should use condom any time you get in contact with her sex parts.
Good luck.
2006-07-16 18:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by George S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude or anything, but I believe in true love waits. If you truely love her, or anyone for that matter, you should wait until you're married, or at least until you're ready to commit to her. You might get her pregnant, are you ready to settle down, and become a father? Think before you act...
2006-07-16 15:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by hello. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is for real commited people. If your not gonna get married and had sex, after you break up, youll relize you gave away sex to the 1st person you never loved for life.
2006-07-16 15:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by princess sorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex DOES change everything and you're not ready. Marriage is the time to have sex with "the one" regardless of your age.
2006-07-16 15:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable doing. Wait until you feel ready to have sex, don't pander to her needs. Stay wary, and only have sex when you feel ready.
2006-07-16 15:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me ask you this,do you really want to do it? if i was you id wait until your for sure shes the right person to do it and if u do it now who knows u might regret it because shes not the one,but yeah i would just wait till u know its time.
2006-07-16 15:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by sarah p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur just not comfortable just yet. and to wait a little bit longer but yall can have other kinds of fun that come close to sex..
2006-07-16 15:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ur a virgin? how old r u tho? ****, go ahead and do it man, trust me. unless ur liek reeeeeaaaaaal religious and peticular about havin one girl and all that bs, man just be careful, makes sure she is clean and dont have a baby, but if she beautiful and a cool girl its all gravy
2006-07-16 15:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you work at a good job and earn enough money to support the baby that is sure to come along? how would you explain it to her parents? maybe you should try to keep it simple til you can.
2006-07-16 15:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋