why is that when it comes to forplay with your boyfriend/husband partner it always has to be them them them , im not saying i dont like doing it but when it comes to the sex its over before you even start .
2006-07-16 07:32:11 · 14 answers · asked by fafandloo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's how some men are! They are selfish little boys!
2006-07-16 07:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometime's the lad think's that you would rather get it over & done!!! so tell him, "take your time"
Maybe you excite him to much, take it as a complement .
You can toss him off as fast as you can (hand job) tell him why you are doing this (make a joke about it) before you do it. Then tell him you want sex to last an hour in 10 minute's time. Come on BIg Boy!!!
Talk to him about sex & tell him what you want!!! encourage him to do the thing's that you like!!!! Don't take his confidence away from him, you will distroy relationship... Guide him!! Tell him that you love it when it last a long time...
P.S You must be a attractive girl, you know what you want??? Guy's are gutted when it's over quickly!!!
If he still does it after you have given him a hand job!!!
GET A MAN!!!!! All bloke's are the same, they would love a quick handjob, & then sex, but how can you ask a girl to do that!!!!
Some bloke's doit without girl knoing then make love.
If you can do what i said then have sex & you are both talking about this then you have a good partner
DON@T DISTROY HIS CONFIDENCE, it could distroy his manhood.
2006-07-16 15:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by dankankirstchar@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! I make sure that my girlfriend has 3 or 4 earth-shattering orgasms before I attempt to slip it to her. Never had a single complaint (then again, the complaint department is right outside the back door, and she knows it). I know that going down on a woman might seem like french-kissing the creature from the black lagoon (face it folks, a woman's genitals are a pretty homely site), but the payoff is manyfold!
2006-07-16 14:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You doing the wrong bloke hun. My hubby likes it the other way round. But I do understand what you are saying, some men might be like that. Ask the bloke yourself and see what he has to say. Then you would know for sure why.
2006-07-16 14:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've had some crappy sexual partners. Sex is about both of you. If your needs are not getting met by your sexual partner, it's up to you to speak up and tell him what you want do or what you want done to you. If you speak up and sex is still crappy, get rid of whoever it is and find someone who understands sharing sexual pleasure.
2006-07-16 14:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why guys dont want to go down on a girl... i'm fine with it... it just takes a while to do it... and its sometimes pretty scary lookin, lol. but in the case where its always us us us... just become kinda agressive & put his head down there & tell him to do it or he gets none, you'll prolly get somethin out of it... ;)
2006-07-16 14:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by P. Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you mean "foreplay". What you say is not true of all people who like to care and share. An Englishman takes his time!
2006-07-16 14:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a less selfish guy! A real man knows that he has to stoke the flames to make the fire burn hotter!!
2006-07-16 14:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love to satisfy the lady orally first . it may take a while but i love doing it . i could do oral all day . so u need a guy that will look after u first .
2006-07-16 14:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is great giving and receiving. That's what makes sex gggrrreeeaaatttt!!!!!!!! Putting your partners needs above yours!!! well that's what i think.
tell him or dump him.
2006-07-16 14:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋