Would you ever hit a girl back that was hitting you with the intention to hurt you? Like if a girl was fully out trying ot hurt you would you hit her back? Push her to the ground? Wrestle her? what would you do?
2006-07-16 07:01:19 · 24 answers · asked by Ben H 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
I should say this is for guy's. because i would expect the girls to say yes, but guys aren't supposed to hit girls but i am j/w what yall would do
2006-07-16 07:04:54 · update #1
The key to this is her intentions. If she was out to physically damage the guy, he has the right of self defense, but his best course of action is to leave and call the police. If he hits her, there is a chance he could end up in jail. Cops tend to take the word of the female unless witnesses say otherwise.
If he can not get away, or call the police, just use defensive moves to block any blows and get out as soon as possible. Wounds/bruises on the guy will prove her intent.
If she uses a weapon, knife, etc. and you can't get away, take the damn thing from her if possible or knock her down and scram. In the case of a gun, if you can not get away, try talking to her calmly and tell her anything she wants to hear. Lying is ok in this situation.
Guys have it hard in these kinds of situations, they really need to try not to have them happen in the first place.
2006-07-16 07:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Seikilos 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never witnessed my dad strick my mom, so in my eyes it is best to be the better person. I have been in this situation and the closest I came to physical contact was to push the person away with one hand after suffering a bite on one arm, finger nail gouges on the other and a cigarrette burn next to my eye. That was when I pushed her, to avoid losing an eye. I closed a bedroom door between us and was headed down the stairs and also recived a blow to the back of the head from an unopend can of mountain dew. I an an active boxer and as hard as it was for me, I never struck her, instead I left my home for 3 hours and had a long talk with my pastor. That was when I realized I needed to end that relationship for my own safety as well as my 2 daughters. Sorry for the long windedness. Some women deserve what they get but society is set up to protect them regardless and I cannot afford to end up in jail and my kidds lose their dad.
2006-07-16 14:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Back away from a female wanting to fight, it doesn't show weakness, it shows you are a smart man. Leave if possible and let it rest...time usually lets tempers cool down. Generally speaking men are dominant when it comes to physical strength so hitting a woman only shows a guy is weak mentally and proves nothing else.
2006-07-16 15:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Allen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I might push her to the ground, but then of course I'd help her back up. But if she came in and attacked me again I would have to make her stop, even if that meant hurting her.
2006-07-16 14:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I ever got mad enough to assault my boyfriend, I would prefer him to fight back. And if I got hurt, I wouldn't act like I was the victim because I think that's what a lot of women do. But I'm not like a lot of women, so don't take that as advice.
2006-07-16 14:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by kaliedoscope_eyes86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was driving a car, for example, and she was hysterical and endangering both of us, I'd find a way to restrain her and stop her from continuing.
I can put up with a few bruises without retaliating. But there is a point where enough is enough.
2006-07-16 14:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has a right to defend themselves, but that's a fine line. Most men are able to subdue a woman. Men are stronger physically than women are for the most part. I don't think a man should just sit there and take it, but I don't think they should beat her to a pulp, either. I think a man could get a woman to stop without hitting her back.
2006-07-16 14:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on the situation. I am female and my motto is if you going to act like a man then take it like a man. I have seen some women fight better then a man.
2006-07-16 14:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well!, aren't they always harpen about equality! WHAMM!! No Really,Maybe, I would just try to control her to settle her down even if that meant putting her to the ground and sitting on her till the police arrived.
2006-07-16 14:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if she was hitting me I would hit her back.even if i was a man.but if your a man and shes not hitting dont ever hit her for no reason or ill take my belt off and whoop you.......nah but dont ever hit a woman if she hit you but if she did, hit her back.
2006-07-16 14:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by dezy4real 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋