The purpose of this marriage would be so that to people who love each other will be together forever.
As long as we don't have sex its not a sin right?
2006-07-16 06:59:50 · 33 answers · asked by Lexi 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yeah and you girls could Marry me and Have Sex w/ me
2006-07-16 07:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by MOGLE 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, technically you CAN marry her but why would you? If you aren't in love then marriage is not worth it. What if she finds someone she would actually like to marry for real with the sex and all? What if you find someone? Marrying each other just to be together is cra/p. You can continue to be bestfriends forever without being married to each other. It's just a matter of working it out and keeping in touch and stuff.
It's not a sin, I suppose, because of the lack of sex. But still, it's pretty dumb considering the fact that you are not in love.
Or maybe you are and just don't want to accept it.
Marriage is for those in love. Not for the rest. Just get a place together or something less... extreme. On the other hand, if marrying helps you both out economically and such and you are aware of that and that's why you want to marry, then be my guest.
Just think about it some more and be absolutely 100% sure that's what you want. Why don't you go to a marriage conselor and talk about it?
2006-07-16 07:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean become Soul mates, so you know how fur you can go, just don't try to get out way with everything, and be ready not to blame her went you can't hold on to your part of the relationship?, I hope you have a good ruler to measure what is right for you and wrong for her, and the other way too, we aren't perfect you know?, will not convince God, and will not make me guilty of anything, I have just said, and I am not an atheist, so I feel the need to polish my opinion about your question in case it becomes your decision to take. The true is that if such needs were as Strong, pure, positive and genuine, I will think you nor your friends will need an strangers opinion nor an approval in the net, to follow your fillings whit all of what you have!.???? Think, why ask? why been insecure?, isn't this another way to show mistrust to your soul mate?. you may not be smart enough to get there before you can start a relationship of this kind?. there is a devil out here you know waiting and lurking to cough some doubt in your decision and use then to make you week, and then wicket. Think.., that will make you more intelligent and Intelligence is something Universal don't be or act stupid! before is time. Think..., soon or later you will be in your own anyway?.
2006-07-16 07:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by paradiseemperatorbluepinguin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone chastely and not be married. Look at the priesthood, for instance! Your question is just a misunderstanding of the Sacrament of the Holy Institution of Matrimony: it is for a man and a woman only. The man and woman express their love for each other and thus give birth to a third person. This is just like the Holy Trinity, where the love shared between the Father and the Son is so intense that it constitutes a whole new person: the Holy Spirit. Thus, the Bible says that we are formed "in the image and likeness of God." Marriage is holy precisely because it is a reflection of God Himself. A marriage between two women would be contradictory, because there is no possibility for life, and thus would not reflect God, contrary to the whole point of Marriage to begin with.
2006-07-16 07:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not marriage that you want. Make a best friend pack or committment. I know two ladies who had been BF since the 3rd grade. They went to college together, approved of each others husbands, and bought houses next door to one another. They are now 40 years old. This dosn't work for everyone. Remember people change as they grow up. Out of the many, many people that I knew in high school, I only talk to two now. It's been 14 years since high school. Now I know a whole other group of people. Good luck.
2006-07-16 07:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Red Cardinal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its weird at all...its just a different type of love...she's important to you and you are important to her...
The church says that only the act of homosexuality is a sin...but in the bible it only says that it is a sin if you are a man and you lay down with a man...it says NOTHING about a woman laying down with a woman. So, at least technically, its not a sin to be lesbian.
So long as your friend is over 18...and you both love each other...and you can find someone to marry you...I say go for it.
2006-07-16 07:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by jXevyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not necessary to marry each other as it can't be done. You can have a relationship that you can live and share your lives together. Sometimes it's not good to be with a person too long as familiarity breeds contempt. You are probably going through a phase in your lives where you might think this, but in time it can wear off and then you'll be glad that you couldn't get married.
2006-07-16 07:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by chuckimagine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, aside from the fact it's WEIRD! No, it wouldn't necessarily be a sin. But is that ALL you are shying away from? If you aren't lesbians then WHY do you want to MARRY? Why can't you just be Friends forever? Why do you have to marry your friend to be together forever? I'm sorry but that's just weird.
2006-07-16 07:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to! There actually is a lot more to marriage than bringing children into the world. You should be able to adopt children, if you desire, and perhaps prove yourself to be better parents than most!
Many people consider their spouse to be their best friend in the world. That's very appropriate ... and it should work both ways! Your best friend could well be the best partner you will ever have in life... the person who cares for you in illness and in health, as you do in turn. If you have enough trust between you to share such wealth as you have, to share a home, to share intimacy on as many levels as you both fell comfortable ... that *is* a marriage, whether or not your government presumes of grant or deny you the privileges thereof. If your church despises that, then find another. It's a wide world and your birthright *is* life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness!
2006-07-16 07:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Julia C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends on the state you live in. I could not imagine marrying my best friend unless they were of the opposite sex. I think you should just be friends unless you are in fact sexually involved which is just plain sick. Same sex marriages was not in God's original plan and I do not believe it should be there now.
2006-07-16 07:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by college@44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn`t seem right. marriage if for a man and a woman who are in love. God made this so that when the man and woman love each other, they will have babies together and teach them to be catholics too and help spread God`s word. I would say it`s a sin.
2006-07-17 13:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by trixabelle29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋