I've been talking to this guy online for nearly a year now (i have spoken to him face to face once but its mainly online) i used to fancy him but then i found out he didnt feel the same way and i kinda didnt fancy him (at least i dont think i did). Now i think that i fancy him again, when i talk to him he makes me smile and i just want the convo to go on forever. Should i tell him how i feel? i don't know whether to risk it. I really like him!
2006-07-16 06:50:44 · 29 answers · asked by Baby Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only way to know for sure is to tell him how you feel.
even if he doesn't have the same feelings at least you will have tried.
2006-07-16 06:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living in a fantasy!!! Do you kiss the screen!!
A machine doe's not touch you!!! Go for a walk &
think about this!!! You can say thing's so easy on machine, but realy you dont nohim at all. When he ask's you a question, you think!!!! then you talk to the hand... Point being, you cannot feel his reaction's....
It,s all bollock's!!! Even whenyou meet him,, you are saying thing's that you could not say face to face!!!!
It's the ONE law of the Net. If you speak through a web camera, & they are naked!! You cannot touch!!! so where's the passion, It's fantasy). I have only been on the web for 2 week's, i@m excited, because it has given my a link to the world. But don't waist your time having a fantasy with a cyberman...babe (example "i am getting personal with you now," if i was face to face i would be shy!! which is a good thing.. That's the attraction...)
It's all bollshit & you are looking for love... Make sure you can feel him, touch him,make love to him,,,,
Have a good cry & leave this stupeod machine/lad alone..
You may have been to personal on net...
THE NET IS LIKE TALKING WITH NO CLOTHE'S ON.
(you show to much) Have you ever tickelled his back??
You will laugh at this one day...
I'm lonely!! Want to meet some one & it's so easy to play the game on the web, but i need to look in the person's eye's...
I am woffling now so BYE BYE & GOOD LUCK...
2006-07-16 07:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by dankankirstchar@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't really know unless you meet him, like is this guy for real? I had an online friendship for a long time with a guy and we felt really close, we thought we'd fell in love, we met, it ruined the friendship completely and now we will never speak again. However on a brighter note i met a guy I got talking to on the internet (but met pretty soon after) and now we're happily in love and getting married. So, just go with your gut feeling I say. Just if u do confess all be prepared for the answer. Good luck!
2006-07-16 06:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by wheresthedoobrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, Mark is right. What is this been talking online for a year bull**it?
You either do something about it or you don't.
Damn its not even like someone you see everyday. Those are really tough to get over. Don't mean to be insensitive but figuritively grow some balls and take action or stop b*itchin and moaning about it.
2006-07-16 06:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by | 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So explain to me why you like this guy.
Usually when a guy turns me down I move on, but that is just me.
Maybe he wants to be your online buddy, and nothing more. Why are you still interested any way? I just dont get people who go after the things that they know they cant have.
I say that you tell him. He either says "you know me too." or he says "I told you before, Im not interested." You cant go wrong either way.
2006-07-16 06:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people always feel the need to tell the objects of their affection exactly how they feel?
Leave something to the imagination. You don't always have to spell everything out in words, spend time with him, show some affection, but explaining everything explicitly kills off the romance, the anticipation, the excitement.
2006-07-16 06:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't get the whole fancying someone you have never met thing.
I would need to have actually met him or at least seen him in the flesh to know if I fancied him.
2006-07-16 06:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe instead of coming right out & saying you like him you could drop hints..like you could say that you really enjoy talking with him or you want to see him again sometime
its always risky telling someone you like them when you're not sure if they like you back but to tell you the truth i told a boy that i liked him (we've known each other for a while) and we ended up going to homecoming together..now im not saying it will work that way but its worth a shot, and if you think you'll regret not telling him than go for it! the results cant be that bad
good luck! =]
2006-07-16 06:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by sun kissed 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, with something like that the risk is minimal. Don't pour out your whole heart just send out some feelers.
Saying things like "Talking to you just makes me smile so much" etc. to see if he responds how you hope he will is the best thing. Then if he doesn't you can keep it to yourself.
2006-07-16 07:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by ausjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him!! The worst that can happen is he will say no, but he wont not be your friend. Then after a while of recovery time, you can pop the question again (why do you say "fancy" so much??).
2006-07-16 06:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋